just a normal guy here, seeking chat and maybe more locally. I have a variety of sides and facets, some a bit off kilter, and some that are right down the middle of red blooded american male. Ask about my kinks, as i am very creative. Im not on here to change my life, just occupy portions of it. Spring and summer are my favorite times to get out, and wont spend much time on the couch. Im 5'10", with a couple of extra pounds and am working on taking them off, but am in good shape and wont slow you down. Gray hair, (since i was young so you didnt cause it), a quick smile and i seldom have a bad day. I have good friends and good hobbies, recently retired and finding ways to relive my childhood and revive some old hobbies. I am generally polite but wont be pushed around. In the bedroom, i will seek a variety of fun. For couples, I am a constant voyeur for your exhibitionist side. I can sit quietly and watch or can be as involved as you would like. Im clean and respectful, both behind closed doors and out in the public world. I have dated women of every age, and know how to fit in and carry on a conversation with your boss, your family and friends, or even people you meet for the first time. In short, i wont embarrass you unless thats what you specifically look for. Yes, i may be your dads age, but its doubtful that you will mistake me for him. For one on one encounters, I have my own twists and turns, and havent quite found a niche where i would classify myself. Lets chat and try to find some common interests and stimulants.

My Ideal Person Be happy and comfortable with yourself and your situation. I dont need a project of building you up, and i dont want to be your project to change into what you want. We have both spent a lifetime becoming what we are, and at this stage wont likely change all that much.
At times, you will have to be sarcastic and quick witted, and at other times thoughtful and reserved, but i know you know how to do both.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I often think of myself in a submissive role with my partner.
One where i am fully under the control of a dominant type.
Of course, that would mean doing things that i normally
would not do. Maybe its just an excuse to do those things,
so i can say i was "forced".

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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