I do not use this site's IM at all. Sending me a regular note is the only way to contact me. The site search engine may show me to be elsewhere but it should show me as being from London, Ontario. In the summer, I love to get on the motorcycle and travel so you don't need to be local to catch my interest but to travel to California by motorcycle is probably too much of a commitment for someone I haven't even met. My friends would describe me as loyal and dependable like a St Bernard but without all the drooling. OK , so occasionally I drool a little. I like dancing, downhill skiing, cycling, motorcycles, reading, playing board games and feeling the warmth of the sun. I spent many years with the woman I became married to. I was divorced. I have been in long term relationships which lasted for 3 years and longer but I find myself single again. By single, that means there is no wife, no girlfriend, no one else regularly in my bed (so I have an opening for that position) - in a word - single. I don't need to own you or be owned by you - I am available for a short-term lease! However, I am open to a fully committed monogamous relationship if I meet someone who has similar values, integrity and respects their partner and the relationship. I am a D&D free, single, straight, educated male with a technical career. I am not interested in the following types of sexual encounters: married women, attached women,couples, group sex or males.That is not a judgement statement about the preference of others; it is just outside of my mental realm. I am not fat (5'9 and 200lbs) or ugly ( unless my friends have been lying to me for years ) but I do not have my picture posted because I work in an extremely conservative business environment and I have easily recognizable features. If you think we might have some mutual interests and you want to see a photo, just ask. No worries, the first one I send won't be a nude shot. I have gone with the shaved head and bearded look for quite a long time now and that is not likely to change so if that is a turn-off for you, I suggest you pass me by and I really hope you find your ideal partner.

My Ideal Person Not looking for my ideal mate at this point in my life. I find many different types of women attractive. Often the only difference between being sexy and not is in how you think.