I'm an attractive, well-educated guy in a long-term and stable, but sexually inactive marriage. I am happy with my wife in most regards, but am not happy about the lack of an active and satisfying sex life. I am serious about my work, but also enjoy the outdoors, baseball, travel, museums, reading, music, theatre, good conversation, and much more. I love s and can still enjoy myself as a . Most people find me warm, relaxed and easy-going, and a pretty good listener.

My Ideal Person I'm hoping to find someone with whom I can enjoy a discreet, no-holds-barred sexual relationship. Besides good sex, I hope we can enjoy each other's company, and actually like each other personally. Looks do count, and I do want someone who is physically attractive. It is crucial that any relationship be discreet, because it is important to me that my marriage and relationship with my young children not be jeopardized. A woman in a similar stable but unsatisfying marriage who is looking for something outside of, not instead of, her marriage would be ideal.

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