I'm married, not looking to change that, but looking for my best friend, confidante and lover with someone for the long term. I'm not looking for casual. If you don't have time or energy to put in to this, I'm not the person for you. I'm not looking to play games and want to be honest ... I was diagnosed with Herpes Simplex 1. I'm embarrassed but I'm doing the best I can about it. Someone recently told me "it's a minor inconvenience". I'm not sure about that yet...

My Ideal Person My ideal person is educated, takes care of himself, honest and married. He is confident but not arrogant. He knows what this type of relationship entails and is willing and able to put time and effort into it. Please don't be telling me you're busy.... that just tells me you're really not into this seriously. I'm also looking for someone married but NOT still intimate with your wife.
I'm in no way a prude or inhibited. But please don't send dick pics or start a conversation with sexual innuendo or asking what I'm in to. Sorry!!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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