Easygoing BBW hoping to find a like minded man who wants to make pleasure, his and mine, a priority. I feel more drawn to younger men. I enjoy their open mindedness, willingness to explore and desire to please. I won't hop in bed with someone I know nothing about. Not safe and not my style. I'm strong willed in the sense that I know what I like and don't like and will not settle. I speak my mind and hopefully you will too and find that to be part of our compatibility. Ideally we can chat a bit, meet and see if we click, in and out of the bedroom. Please understand I WON'T meet you after one conversation. If you're looking for a random, one off experience, I'm not the one for you. I don't believe in finding the "perfect lover"; just someone who I can mesh with, mold and see how good it gets. If you have a great imagination and are funny, even better. Really appreciate a guy with some intelligence, who can actually carry on a conversation. The brain is the largest sex organ in the human body, and if my mind isn't as stimulated as my body, then it's really not that fun. I realize what kind of a site this is, I'm not naïve as to what most are looking for. I'm different than "most", so it's better to put that out there so you know what you're in for if you choose to message me. I don't put up with bullshit. All this being said, I really have no plans, just want to see where things go if I meet someone compatible, ideally you feel the same. I am also intrigued by bi/curious men but it's not a deal breaker by any means. I'm also not currently a Gold member, so unless you want to take care of that for me, lol, take your chances and add me as a friend.

My Ideal Person SINGLE, UNATTACHED (not single while the wife/girlfriend/significant other are at work or out of town) D & D free, in his 20s to 40s who is very sexual, looking to explore with the right woman, exploring his submissiveness and aiming to please. I don't do anonymous quickies. If you message me hoping I will meet you at a hotel as you pass through town, I won't reply. The more we know each other, the better sex is. Getting to know you is a potentially rewarding investment for both of us. I'll admit that teasing, dirty talk is a real turn on. If you're creative and have a way with words that's a big plus. Hopefully you are local, or travel to my area on a regular basis so we can maintain something ongoing.

I'm not looking to have a rotation of partners, lol. Hopefully one good one! Also, not looking to be part of a threesome with a couple, thanks.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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