Hey there 41 year old happily-married white male in a recently opened marriage. Looking for women in a similar situtation. prefer married women in my age group give or take ten years. I'm not looking for love, i AM in love with my wife. We both know the score (i actually think shes on this site also). I am looking for some passion and some romance. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of our profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Ideally I'd love a woman in a similar situation as mine. You love your husband and he loves you, but you've just fallen in a cliche. Really only interested in getting to know you and then meeting.

If you're an attached woman in a similar situation... look I know women can meet a man and know almost instantly whether or not he's the one (or in this case i guess "a" one). Let me take you out for a drink sometime. The worst thing that you've lost is 10 minutes plus the drive.

I'd prefer a woman roughly in my age group of late 30s early 40s but that, again, that isn't a deal breaker in either direction.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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