I am a guy who likes to make love to women, and to get to know and befriend them. I am HETERO and wish to meet women. Their status doesn't matter too much, but if they are attached I would like to meet their SO and get approved for whatever the lady and I want to do. I enjoy looking at the pretty pictures and the videos, but I would much rather meet a woman who wants to befriend me and get to know me. I had been on here before and had found a girlfriend for a long-term relationship, but that's over. A lot of the good parts there were lovemaking, friendship, being able to chat and being able to spend the night with her. But we broke up and she got married soon after (to a man she met after the breakup). I am no homewrecker and would never make a move on a married or attached woman without her and her mate's express consent. I'm not interested in having sex with the mate, either, although I and the mate might collaborate on pleasing the woman. Maybe I should be on regular FriendFinder, ad I probably will be, but I like the idea of taking great care of a woman in bed and hoping she will do the same for me. I am interested in her as a per, how well we click, whether we like each other and also have that special spark that makes sex great. If she is willing to give me some things I like, I will learn what she likes and give it to her as much as she needs! I do not want drama, but I like it when people trust me and talk to me, and I try to work out ways for them to help themselves.

My Ideal Person I would like to get to know a woman who is intelligent, has a lot of fun with life, likes to look nice and is pretty secure in her life, especially about her job. I don't mind good looks at all, but any woman is beautiful if she is nice, especially if she is caring and does things to help people. I have a large age range because some very young women can be very grown up and have similar interests to me, and some older women may have the youthful spark that energizes me. I don't have hair color or eye color preferences. I do want women who love to give and receive affection. I don't want to have to compete with a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend because I don't want to alienate anyone's affections. If you don't think I am attractive to you, please tell me and tell me why. I can't be made over in a woman's ideal image and I won't ask a woman to change her beliefs just to suit me. I do enjoy conversation and comparing viewpoints, and I love women who enjoy going out and having fun.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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