We're a happily married couple and we really want and need a third to make our relationship complete. We realize this may not be the ideal place to find the per we're seeking, but we haven't been able to find the right per through other means either, yet. We're a generous, caring and friendly couple, perally and sexually open, although quiet, traditional, and conservative in many ways. We've been married for 27 years and have had a lady that we've shared before, but we find ourselves without right now, and we've realized together that it's long past time to fix that. He has to travel quite a bit for employment and she wants someone to share when he's home and to have to herself when he can't be. We have room in our lives and home for someone who truly wants to join with us long-term, or for some who want just a little more from time to time. When we're together we also try to travel on summer weekends, when possible on our motorcycle, so we would love to find people we can visit when we're out and about. That can be casually just once or people we see regularly, we'll wait to see. We will consider similar couples, but the lady must be bisexual and the male/husband comfortable with sharing her with both of us. We aren't able to put a photo on here, we're far too recognizable locally, but will send one to those who indicate a serious interest. We don't trade nude shots, and aren't really interested in yours, although we're always happy to look - especially Rich. When we want to see what you've got we'll unwrap you for ourselves. We've expanded our search to couples, as he's decided that he's comfortable with some male-male contact, and many (Most?) of the women she wants are already committed. We'll take it slow and see how far that goes. Not a requirement, but he's not "pathologically" straight, either. We often travel to both Kansas City and the Twin Cities for weekend visits. Other sites are possible, and of course we are always up for a roadtrip on our motorcycle. Let us know if you'd like us to visit you. Travel update: We will be in the the Twin Cities in October 14, 15, November 18, 19 and December 9, 10. Some new travel friends would be nice. Single guys - there's a rea you're not included in this, we may not block you, unless you become obnoxious about it, but you'd have to be something really special to get any response. There's nothing about your cock that's all that special. If you're ashamed of your face, you're wasting your time. [B]WARNING:[/B] Any institutions using this site, or associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have our permission to use any of our profile, or pictures, in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! Definition: Pathologically straight - just the briefest male-male contact while you are both trying to please the same woman, or in the same bed, causes an instant wilting and loss of interest.

My Ideal Person We're truly looking, primarily, for someone who is interested in something ongoing. This is mostly a search for something serious and long-term, a live-in arrangement, with your own rooms, is even possible for the right lady who is unattached and without children. She has a real weakness for younger women who are slender, with dark hair and eyes, but truth be told it's more about being yourself and open to being a regular part of our lives. If all you want is just one night of sex you won't be happy when we send you home with nothing, since we almost certainly won't get to bed with you on the first meeting, unless we're traveling somewhere that we're not likely to visit again. One night stands and first meeting sex just usually aren't our style. It's partly about the sex, obviously, but even more about growing together and getting to know each other. Age, race, and size, within reason, are mostly open, if we hit it off in all the rest of ways. About the only non-negotiable is that you must either be a non-smoker, or able to go without it when you're with us.

And ladies, if you've got jealous boyfriend issues, we love you, we really do, but we don't need the drama.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Her Fantasy: Since I can be a bit slow to warm up, Rich finds
someone on here and sets up a first meeting. He decides that
the lady is what we're loking for, and someone I'll
be attracted to. Since my birthday is coming up soon, he
decides to "give" her to me for my birthday present.
Without my knowing, he takes her shopping and buys her a
set of sexy lingerie, including a lacy pink garter belt
and matching lacy pink bra and panties. He picks out a pair
of pale pink stockings with lacy tops, and gets her a lovely
lacy gown to go over it. On my birthday he buys me a massage
and sends me off to get my "birthday present".
While I'm gone he has her come over and get dressed in
the lingerie he's purchased, he wraps the gown around
her and ties it with two big pink ribbon bows at her waist
and throat and has her wait for me to return home. When my
massage is done I come home and am thanking him for the wonderful
present with a long deep kiss. When I stop he tells me to close
my eyes and wait, he's going to bring the rest of my presnt
out for me to unwrap. I close my eyes and he brings the young
woman he's selected out and stands her in front of me.
He tells me to open my eyes, and says, "Surprise! Now
unwrap the rest of your presnt." <br><br>
I slowly untie the bows and sllide the gown off her shoulders
and start kissing her. We both get excited pretty quickly,
so I take her back into the bedroom, remove the bra and panties,
and strip out of my own clothes as fast as I can and start making
love to her as fast as I can. After about an hour we pause to
cuddle, and notice that Rich has stripped his clothes off
and is sitting quietly in the chair stroking himself and
waiting. She looks at me and asks if ew should invite him
to join us. I say, "If you want." So she asks him
to get into bed with us and the three of us make love for another
couple of hours. We finally sleep for a while, and spend
most of the weekend in bed, and almost all of it naked, enjoying
each other and getting to know each other's bodies.
We break a while to go to work on Monday, but she comes right
back and spends most of the next several weeks with us, mostly
naked and making love. <br><br>
When Rich has to go to Seattle in September she takes a week's
vacation to go with me to join him, and while we rent a car
to see the sights, we spend most of our time in bed in the hotel.
When we all get back Rich suggests that since she's
spending all her time with us anyway that she should just
move in. She accepts and breaks her lease and moves into
our house. While she has her own room for appearances sake,
she rarely even goes into it except to get some clothes.
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His Fantasy: That they don't forget I exist!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Who? Why bother.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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