I'm slowly, ever so slowly, getting back to having some fun with my life. I'd love to share that with someone else. I'm not looking for commitment - but I am wanting to give a lot of myself. I'm clean, healthy, periodically very fit (the odd marathon here and there) and still good looking for 45 in a cute rather than rugged way. I'm a suit wearer in the day, but distinctly hippyish outside of work. I love music, crafts, art, performance theatre, adult entertainments and laughing - mostly I love laughing.

My Ideal Person Ideally you will be wanting to spend some safe, comfortable fun time with someone who is hugely discrete, highly sensual and attentive. You'll be healthy, hearty, uninhibited (experience is not a must, just the willingness to join in fully).

I make no expectations of you (no shopping list of 'things' that must happen) but anything you want, just ask, it will probably be OK and if not I'll let you know.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Eels, Radiohead, Mozart, Wagner/Mahler, QOTSA

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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