I am an adult, emotionally and intellectually sane, well balanced, cultured man who is looking for a play partner (preferably long term and stable -- I don't like one night stands and brief encounters) of the shemale/ladyboy persuasion. I am a quite "butch" daddy-type. Very physically strong. Very "manly" (even though I'm probably a little too preoccupied with issues of sense and sensibility to be a proper geezer). My work is meat and potatoes. Nothing fancy, it's all about making the bread. However, I'm not terribly interested in making a career and all that. I've been in "important" and affluent positions often enough to have realised that this is like a near-death wish, because there will be no time left to actually ENJOY that lifestyle which you can so amply afford. Main interests are various things that belong under the umbrella concept of CULTURE, with a particular penchant for cinema (I guess it's correct to say I'm a cinephile). Entertainment seems boring to me (a bit of a paradox right there) but I'll gladly spend two hours watching an obscure dance-theatre performance that nobody understands. And then talk about it... At this day and age I do very little drink and drugs and all that, even though I'm a cigarette smoker, but I guess you can say that I've had, so far, what amounts to an "interesting life" indeed. (If shit has a name, I've been there and done that.) All that's left of all that is a taste for bud and the occasional glass of obnoxiously expensive wine. Other than that, I'm QI - Quite Interesting - perhaps not as much because of my IQ (genius level) as my fiery passionate nature (which has earned me many a scar in the face).

My Ideal Person Let me be very clear on this: I don't want any part timer transvestite or crossdresser or whatever -- I seek someone who's always in character, a real shemale who's ladylike and forceful. You should be sexually versatile but probably about 70% top, well mannered and well educated. You wish, no you NEED, to be treated like a lady and keep up with every aspect of outward "womanly" appearance and behaviour. This is not a game to me and shouldn't be to you either.

It should also be mentioned that even though I'm as white as they come, I find myself most attracted to "dark" (not just physically) girls. I.e. black, latin, asian... but this must not be seen as an absolute. I have dated blondes too. Yeah I know, it makes no sense.