WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. I am an exiting woman looking for a boring life. I am pretty easy going and non judgmental. I live a quiet, independent life right now, and I'd like someone similar to share it with. Most of my friends are pretty normal people who are into something kinky, or really in touch with their own sexuality. I used to have a wild and crazy sex life in a big city. I miss that life, but am not looking to relive it. I coach others and give courses and seminars for a living now, so I don't want to have to do that in my peral life! I also can't just turn off my sexuality, so I decided to try this website. I am a single and free woman who likes to enjoy herself and spread a lot of love. I am a serial monagomist, so if I make a promise to you, I'm going to keep it! I also have a huge family, which I am very close to. They know what I do for work. (I'm a sex/lifestyle coach) They just don't want to hear about it. I am open minded and I am looking to just have fun with some other like-minded people, especially up here North of Denver. There isn't much I haven't tried, but I'm open to trying new things. I'm a private per and I can be discreet. I am mostly straight, but I like having women involved in my sex life. They add so much to the experience. They are so soft and sweet and I love it when she cums!! I have a lot to teach to a female looking to explore her sexuality in a safe and emotionally secure environment. I also love bi/bi-curious men. Educating others on how to orally please a man seems to be a specialty of mine. I've been doing it since high school! I really like group sex, when everything is right. It must be comfortable for all of us. Lots of guys at once is my favorite... or one REALLY good man can be very pleasant, too! If you're a man, I don't want to have to teach you everything, but I want you to be teachable. You must know how to be respectful of everyone and their boundaries. I prefer tall men because I am 5ft 9in and I like to wear 5in stilettos! It is also important that you bring along some skills or, at least, enough enthusiasm to make up for your lack there of. I'm not looking for any freaks who need me to fill some need in their life and I am not going to send you photos of me or peral contact information. No phone/IM/cyber sex or web cams. I'm looking for intelligent conversation, maybe sharing some fun stories or fantasies. I like teasing and exploring our sexuality together. I'm into [COLOR royalblue]B&D and the psychology of sex; sensory deprivation, and self-exploration.[/COLOR] I don't do S&M anymore. Pain is a great sexual tool if used right, but it is a means to an end and never really the end for me. I love erotic art and the beauty of naked bodies entwined together. [COLOR indigo]I like mystery and fantasy in my sex life, but HONESTY and safety are a must! If you are part of a couple, I will only play with both of you. Liars and cheaters need not apply. Of course, D&D free and condoms are mandatory...EVERY TIME!!![/COLOR] ~Mistress Nicole HappySexyFunGirl

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone that can say something to me that will keep a secret smile on my face for the whole day, and I will reciprocate. Can you do that for me?

My ideal mate would be a tall, intelligent man who has lived an exciting life himself. He would understand my past without condemnation and appreciate the fact that I have studied sex and relationships my whole life, just so that I could be the best partner he could find! I'm looking for chemistry, connection, intimacy, open communication, laughter, exploration, and true love. Until then, I'll take mind-blowing sex and a great friendship.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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