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rm_IcySoul88 41 / M
"Looking for a Princess on the Streets and a Slave in the Sheets"
Kingston, Ontario, Canada
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rm_IcySoul88 41/M
Kingston, Ontario , Canada
Basic description: 26, male, straight, top. slight muscular/athletic/slender build. Probably more geeky then is actually healthy. Down to earth and realistic. Since this is an online dating/community site, and I'm on several, i want to stress that I don't do other males. Just not my thing, nothing peral.

My Ideal Person Previous Experience:
Actively Doming for about 9 years with a range of subs. This includes vanilla w/bdsm, and single and multiple encounters. I have a decently stocked equipment selection, albeit I'm missing a few items that I'm waiting for a long-term sub to get, mostly due to sizing issues. I've never had a complaint and no sub has yet regretted the experience.
I have previously 'trained' newbies to BDSM and have no issues doing so again with suitable open-minded and exploration-inclined applicants.

One issue I'm adding to my list is that a prospect must be able to meet within 2 weeks of contact. I'm not saying that it has to be an encounter or anything of that nature, but we must meet as proof of your sincerity in pursuing involvement.

I'm particularly fond of erotic photography, bondage, humiliation and leash play, but have preformed most common (and quite a few uncommon) bdsm acts. I'm willing to try anything provided the sub gives me time to do proper research and there's no health risks to the sub.

In general you can expect to be photographed, i consider it a staple. Although at the same time I can guaranty that no pictures will be displayed, posted, traded or given without prior permission from the sub involved. That's my strict policy.

My Limits:
I will not do anything which risks the health of the sub. In other words; knife play, gun play, fire play etc are out. Do not mistake this for saying that I will not inflict pain (for all you pain-junkies), i just will not risk causing long term harm. Also understand that I'm willing to do some play as using non-dangerous props and the like.

My Pet Peeves:
First of all I took Woman's Lib, I believe in equality, in fact I think on average women are smarter then males, but I believe if someone choose the role of submissive that they are in fact submissive. So if you call yourself a sub and give me the 'woman's rights speech' or call me chauvinistic just once, I won't speak to you again. If your a sub, be a sub. If you want to be a woman's rights crusader by all means do so with my full support, but don't pretend to be a sub.

Next if we start to talk then keep up the conversation, take a week off and you'll find I wont respond to you when you get back. If your not committed then your not a sub and your not worth my time.
Also if your limits list includes 'being tied up'. 'being spanked' and/or being told what to do, get off the site and stop calling yourself a sub. Seriously.
Lastly if your already in a relationship with a Dom but looking for extra play I'm okay with that but don't expect me to work by the rules or ask permission to do various things from your master. I don't give a damn. I'm a Dom, I'll respect your limits but i won't ask anybody for permission, that's for subs. If you want to encounter great but you've accepted that your encountering with me which makes me your Master for the duration, end of story.
Finally, don't waste my time.

My Equipment:
I'm told that i have more BDSM gear then someone without a long-term sub should logically have. That being said I have a fully stocked toy chest, minus only a few pieces which, for size reasons, I'm waiting to get should I ever get a long-term sub. Currently my collection includes, but is not limited to; Whips, Floggers, Cuffs (ankle, wrist, thigh), collars (slave, dog and cat), Hogtie straps, a violet wand, a Vibrator wand, Nipple clamps (various designs), Spreader bars (including a custom one used as a stock), Pet Cage, Chain, Ball gags, Bit gags and a large selection of straps and ropes and assorted household goods (ex. clothespins).

Generic Background Stuff:
I'm an artist and photographer. I grew up in a rural environment, love the outdoors particularly hiking. I detest the bar scene and drunks. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs but am not opposed to people doing such as long as their responsible. i like to think of myself as a nice guy, at least outside of the bedroom

Example of my typical Encounter(s):
Initially I start encounters by having the sub strip and kneel. We then go over my standard rules. Once the rules have been established I collar the sub, leash her and have her crawl around a bit on all fours to establish her place in the proceedings. From there I like to improvise a bit, but needless to say she will be spanked, flogged and possibly whipped. Clothespins and/or Nipple clamps will be affixed to nipples and possibly labia/clit depending on sub's pain threshold. Over the course of the encounter she's liable to be tied or chained in various poses, standing spread eagle, laying spreadeagled, wrists tied to ankles with her ass vulnerable in the air all sorts of fun stuff. Her most vulnerable bits will be used in every way possible and orgasms will be induced using vibrator wands until I'm suitable amused by her begging for it to end. After all this if she is found suitable she will provide sexual service of her utmost ability or we'll break out the whips and try again lol.

Okay well that's decent enough I think, I'm very approachable and welcome any messages. Naturally as someone who is looking I'd love to hear from any local female subs/slaves that may want to discuss possibilities. I'd also love discussion and debates and welcome any messages of a pleasant nature.

My Ideal Person: What I'm Looking For:
At Present I am looking for a sub. Female only, preferably younger then 27, but up to 32-ish can apply. Local-ish is a must, long distance relationships don't work. Girls from Ottawa and Toronto can apply if their willing to find their way here, i don't travel for subs, unless they've already proven their worth. Bi-sexual girls are, of course, a bonus. In terms of long term goals I would love a long-term bdsm relationship, not necessarily 24-7 but there's nothing wrong with a behind closed doors situation.

As I mentioned I have an athletic build and I appreciate a girl who is in shape. I've dated overweight girls and I'm just not interested in that again, nothing personal. That being said though I'm fine with average or slightly above average if its in the range of 10 or 20 pounds. As far as appearance goes I'm not specific. I will admit to a weakness for red hair, glasses and/or the Goth/emo look but that's by no means a requirement. A geeky side is a great thing too.

Finally the dread personality portion. Okay, really there's only three parts to this one. Subs have to be down to earth, there's only one thing worse then a smug, snobbish, self-important girl and that's when shes pretending to be a sub.

Secondly, I'm looking for someone whose open to experimentation and exploration. I am not interested in someone with a limits list longer then my arm. I respect limits but not people who limit things without trying them first.

Third, I'm not hiring you nor am I your meal ticket. If your a gold-digger or a "freeloading because I'm pretty" type, take a walk because your not wanted here.

Also as I have a strong interest in erotic photography the availability to this is desirable. I do not display pictures taken during sessions without prior consent of the sub, hence why there are no trophy-shots in my free profile and only those provided with permission in my private albums.

My newest rule, all girls must have their priorities straight. If you cant arrange time to meet in the first two weeks, and i don't necessarily mean an encounter but just to actually hang out, then your priorities are not right for being a sub and you shouldn't be on this site and you definitely shouldn't waste my time. I know i mentioned this above but i want to reinforce the point.

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  • Kingston, Ontario, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: January 5, 1982
Marital Status: Single
Height: Prefer not to say
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Speaks: English
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