Warning: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, any of the other information I have furnished on my page, or my pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I'm 5'8", slender, with light brown hair, brown eyes and a nearly white goatee. I have no idea why my hair is light brown and my goatee is nearly white. I have a warm perality and a gentle nature and like to use my knowledge, experience, creativity, imagination and skill to give women superlative sexual pleasure but I will always treat you with respect. I'm into a lot of different things: massage, conversation (after all, without the mind, there would be no sex), using lots of different and interesting toys, role playing, light bondage (paddles, ticklers, blindfolds, etc.), and using fucking machines; after all, "variety is the spice of life". I like to encourage my partners to talk about their likes, dislikes, interests and desires so that we will always be on the same page and, since I'm one of the few men who actually knows what he's doing, I know how to have a lot of fun and how to do so safely. Although exchanging emails is a good first step, you have to be willing to meet and have a face-to-face conversation with the other per in order to find out if the chemistry actually works. If you're ready for some quality TLC and a unique and thoroughly satisfying experience, I would love to meet you. When I listed Bondage & Discipline as something I was looking for at the top of my page, I did so only because that was the only description that came close; I'm only into light bondage - I'm not really into discipline at all but I might do it for those who insist. And although I enjoy light bondage, it is not a must do thing - it's only for those who are interested and/or would like to try it. Although I am pretty open minded, there are some things that I just don't do.

My Ideal Person I am not interested in black women. I'm not interested in smokers; the reality of it is that anyone who is smoking today is either suicidal, extremely stupid or has allowed themselves to become addicted to nicotine and is in total denial about it. There are just too many very effective drugs and methods out there for those who want to quit smoking so there's no excuse.
As for Body Type, although I usually prefer the slender/petite, athletic, or average types, women who describe themselves as having a few extra pounds or as ample are fine as long as those terms are used honestly, accurately, and objectively; here's where the saying "A picture is worth a thousand words" comes in.
I make my choices by judging each woman individually and put a lot of value on certain qualities in a woman's face, her eyes, her degree of sexuality, and how well we get along.
I am not looking for perfection but simply for a woman who is attractive, sensitive, sensual, who loves sex, is comfortable talking about it, who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it, who is willing to try new things, and who can appreciate me for who I am. For the time being, I'm not looking for a long term relationship, just no-strings-attached sex (discreet or not) or a friend with benefits. But it would be nice to find someone whom I can enjoy and who can enjoy me both in and out of the bedroom; if anything more develops, I might be agreeable but only time will tell.
For those of you who are game players, I suggest that you try Russian Roulette.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Classical, Jazz, & Rock, but not everything in any
category.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am one of several photographers attending a celebrity
event and am standing outside the building where the event
is being held. Along with the other photographers, I am
photographing the celebrities as they arrive and step
out of their limousines when Tara Reid shows up. Suddenly,
some nut case pulls out a gun and starts shooting. Since
he's on the other side of her about 50 feet away, she
starts running in my direction and I instinctively take
her hand and we run away from the scene together. A little
while later we come to a large brick building and, finding
a back door open, we hurry inside and lock the door behind
us. It's Sunday, the building is deserted, and we notice
that the place appears to be a business that sells movie
props and costumes. There is a large antique couch with
a bunch of costumes piled up on it. I move the costumes out
of the way and we sit down together. She starts to cry uncontrolably
and I put my arms around her; I tell her that it's OK now,
that we're safe, and try to comfort her. After a while,
she stops crying, wipes the tears from her eyes and looks
directly at me. There is what seems like a long moment of
silence, and then, overcome by her beauty, I move forward
and kiss her gently on her lips. She responds slowly, hesitantly
at first but soon we are engaging in a long, passionate,
hot kiss and I can hear breathing changing as she becomes
aroused. After a while, she stops, and, giving me an alluring
smile, deftly and quickly removes her clothes. As I see
what she is doing, I remove mine. She lays down on the couch
on her stomach and I sit down beside her and bend over and
start to kiss her on the back of her neck and to lick, suck,
and nibble on her ear lobes. Then I make a chain of light,
warm kisses slowly down her back to her ass and kiss her cheeks.
I hear her moaning excitedly and a little while later she
turns over. We engage in another long passionate, session
of deep kissing. Then I move my kisses to her neck, her shoilders,
her breasts, her nipples, down her stomach, and plant a
very tender kiss just above her clit. Then I begin to kiss
her inner thighs, the outer lips of her pussy, and to draw
slow circles with the tip of my tongue around her clit, teasing
the opening of her pussy with my finger as I do. As she begins
breathing more deeply and excitedly, I start to delicately
tickle her clit with my tongue and to finger fuck her pussy
reaching for her G spot. Some time after I find it, she cries
out passionately with her pleasure and comes with a generous
amount of her sweet, juice gushing forth, leaving her pussy
shiny and sweetly scented. Then she lets me lay down and
gets on top of me, forward cowgirl style, and starts to fuck
me, slowly at first but gradually increasing her speed.
As she is fucking me, I reach around and trace endless, random
circles with my finger tips on the cheeks of her ass for a
while and then, wetting my middle finger with her pussy
juice, I start to slide it gently into her ass hole each time
she thrust her hips back. We go at it for some time before
she comes again, shivering and shaking uncontrolably;
afterwards, for a long time, we lie on the couch, not saying
a word, in a warm wonderful silence, smiling contentedly
at each other.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage, kissing, foreplay, using fucking machines on women

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Tara Reid. Everything. I think. But, on second thought,
I don't know how she smells or what she taste like. Of
course, having a curious nature, I'd like to find out.......

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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