I'm focused and stable, goal-driven, brutally honest with a warped sense of humor. I am looking for a mature friend to check out that little sushi place with or explore a quiet stretch of beach. I am enjoying living in the here and now but with definitive goals towards which I am working hard. I am looking for a distraction and perhaps someone to share my journey. I'm not interested in the man who doesn't know himself or where he wants to be. My goal is not marriage, or even some kind of lifetime commitment. If it happens, wonderful! If it doesn't, wonderful! I am more interested in a friend/companion and lover. I am shy at first, but have no problem making and keeping good friends. I am choosy about my friends and won't pursue a friendship if it doesn't feel right. I value honesty and loyalty above everything and once my trust is lost, it takes a lot to get it back. I'm not into the club scene or the meat market, been there, done that....gave the t-shirt to Goodwill for the tax write-off. Love the small pubs, or late night restaraunts, a few DVD's and a nice bottle of wine at home is great too. I am an action/horror junkie, dramas I leave to the sentimental. My music tastes range from Nickleback and Evanescence to Mozart and Dvorak. I love good coffee, good wine, good dark beers, and even a good cigar in the right company. I love to cook and bake, and love it even more when I have help. I have an open mind and am willing to try anything atleast once, except jumping out of an airplane...I just can't get past that one. Great conversation and mutual respect is a key to any relationship. If you can't hold your own against me, I'll forgive you. I have a sharp wit and can be sarcastic, but this is only when I feel comfortable that someone can take it the way I meant it. I will not put up with games and drama. I find it funny that a large number of guy's profiles say the same thing. I don't have room in my life for it and if you like that kind of thing, check out the 20 something bleach-blonds at the clubs. Not looking to wreck homes, so would like to avoid married guys if I can. Read my profile carefully before contacting me....if you're not into someone like me....don't waste my time or yours.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Nickelback, Breaking Benjamin, Seether, Three Doors
Down, Hurt

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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