Allow me to introduce myself. I’m a genuine, down to earth, very sexual and good hearted man who’s here in search of love and play. My ultimate hope is to find a sweet girl with a wild side that would fit well with mine; to romance her and capture her heart…along with all the rest of her. While some would profess that a site such as this is not a good place to seek romance, I think it perfect. It allows us to be open about a very important part of our lives that often takes much time to discover in the “vanilla” world. Mind you, I love the vanilla world, but I also very much enjoy wild things. As with most things in life, balance is good. While I continue my search for my special girl, I do enjoy occasional wild adventures or a friend with benefits. I am open to most scenarios except for single men. I do enjoy playing with couples on occasion; a wanton woman who craves more than one cock, or new cock, turns me on! Ultimately, though, my goal is to find that one special woman with whom I can connect and share on all levels. Because I tend to be a bit verbose and in interest of keeping you longer than the average 4 or 5 seconds that people scan these things, I’m gonna switch mostly to bullet points, and break this ad into two parts: “ABOUT ME AND THE WOMAN I SEEK” and “ABOUT ME SEXUALLY”. That might save you a bit of time. But get comfortable; it’s not a short ride. ;) ABOUT ME AND THE WOMAN I SEEK Honestly, what you’re about to read is my match ad. Please forgive my self-plagiarism. I decided to use it here because I thought about it a lot as I wrote it, it all applies here anyway, and I’m not sure even if I did redo it that I could express these things any better. So, here ya go… SALT OF THE EARTH SEEKS GIRL WITH FLOWER My name is (name has been withheld in this case, to protect the less than innocent). I have much to be joyous, but want to share it in a deep, intimate connection with a girl who captures my heart and makes my eyes sparkle with mirth and love. I want to do the same to her. About me: Horticulturist in profession, passion and hobby. I’m very good at it. I have an amazing garden. Business owner. I’m passionately dedicated to making a difference through my work. Tree hugging environmentalist. No, really, I hug trees. I’ve been known to kiss ‘em. Practice what I preach…mostly. Romantic (but still a man and sometimes clueless). Strong ego, but neither vain nor conceited. I take doses of humility, like vitamins for the soul. Sometimes I take them myself, sometimes they’re handed to me. Not afraid of love and opening my heart. Very motivated and hard working. I work too much sometimes. I want you to give me good cause to change that. Laugh and smile easily and often. Every laugh is genuine. So are most smiles. Have a wild side and am focused and intense in passion play. I love to give pleasure and love to take it. Most dogs and s think I’m alright. The feeling’s mutual. Opinionated. Open minded. Enjoy playful verbal sparring. Good communicator. I openly share my thoughts and feelings. Equally important, I want to know yours. I sometimes wear my heart on my sleeve. Word nerd. Love language and etymology. Words hold much more power than most realize. Eat well, mostly. Live a healthy lifestyle, mostly. I do this for me, not because I’m single. Believe in moderation and occasionally practice excess. Solid, strong and masculine. Cool headed in emergencies. Sometimes feel fear. Usually show courage. Very willing to share thoughts and feelings. Good at it too. Respectful…of women, people, life and the earth. Rescue bugs and dogs. Let the bugs go, keep the dogs. I usually have three of the latter, am down to two. I lost my best friend but keep him in memories. Genuine, passionate and at least a little verbose. Please email me if you meet three or more of the following criteria: Loves NPR and/or Merriam-Webster. Bonus points for both. Tough enough but genuinely feminine. Very sexual. Very open. Believes life is delicious in part for its challenges. Has less than 65 pairs of shoes and is willing to accept I’m at least semi-fashion-clueless. Ok…we all have our hobbies, so this one is negotiable. Likes yard sales. Stops at ‘em occasionally, sometimes impromptu, sometimes planned. Loves nature and animals. Wants and tries to consciously evolve. Appreciates that in others. When traveling, wants to visit a botanical garden. Appreciates a guy with chickens. Appreciates that he pets them. Knows the difference between there, their and they’re, and when each is used. Supermodel AND rocket scientist. ;) Finally…if intelligent, genuine, loving, open-minded, playful and beautiful describes you… you just won my lottery! I’ll happily deliver your prize in per! There are many installments. Finally, finally…I’m genuine, down to earth and an exceptional good man. You really should write me. You needn’t have the flower already. I can provide. Soooo… that’s my match ad, and it’s all as true as far as I can fathom. If you’re interested, you could find my ad there and see my face photos, but I can’t post them here for professional reas; I can however send you some. And here’s the part you won’t read on match: ABOUT ME SEXUALLY I’m a very sexual man, a powerful lover, very open-minded and quite kinky. I love to please, but I’m also very good at taking pleasure. In fact, I tend to be quite dominant in the bedroom. As with most things in a relationship, I think it especially true in sex that there should be a beautiful merging, as well as options for compromise. All of our desires need not be exactly the same. But I know this about myself…if there’s a particular fetish or play that greatly excites you, that goes a long way to exciting me about it too. It would be great if you felt that way too. I described myself earlier as a powerful lover. That’s a bold and quite egotistical statement, but I do believe it to be true. Here’s another place where bullet points might work best. To further describe myself, I would say I’m: Enthusiastic. Not shy and often bold. I’m pretty much totally uninhibited. Playful. Sex is fun. Leading. I love to take the lead. Not in a mean way, just firm and I know what I want. I love to teach, nurture and facilitate an ever-greater blossoming of your true sexual nature. Explorative. There’s very little I wouldn’t consider at least trying, and many I already have. Responsive as a lover. I want to get into your head, find what makes you tick…and maybe even squirt. Very sensual. This applies to many things, from cuddling through sex, and elsewhere in my life as well. I love to touch and am good at it; sometimes, very good. I have strong hands. Open to your desires. I love fulfilling fantasies. Very vocal and expressive. I love dirty and sensual talk. I’m very good at it. A full-body lover. The entire body is a sensual organ. Love to kiss. It is through our lips that the greatest intimacy of sensual union is realized. I’m a good kisser. Very oral. I truly love to please that way. It’s an art and I love to practice and refine my skills. But it is not all about technique; it should and will be directed and responsive to you. Very anal. I love a hot ass and love mine played with too. Once again, I’m very oral. ;) Very hung, long lasting and can cum repeatedly. Sometimes when excited I can cum and just keep on fucking, my cock staying fully or semi-hard. If semi, then pretty soon, it’s full hard again. Somewhat bi. Not sure how else to describe it. I’ve had bi experiences before, mostly with couples. It’s a thrill if it turns my woman on. But by far, my primary attraction is for women. Open to swinging. I’ve had a fair bit of experience. I’d want it to be a good thing for both of us, emotionally and physically. Open and even eager for other things. After all, I can’t tell you everything here! As for what I’d love to find sexually in my girl, I’d love it if she were: Eager to please. Craves and needs her own satisfaction fulfilled. Ethically slutty…especially for me. I’d also love it if you wanted to fuck other men and women…but with me involved, and not too crazy often...remember, I want some vanilla too. Very oral, both giving and receiving…but especially receiving. Very anal. This is important to me. You needn’t already be experienced, for I’m an awesome teacher and very good at making it pleasurable. If anal grosses you out, we’re probably not a good fit. Most of the things I listed in describing myself, things like playful and explorative, I’d also love to find in my girl. So…that’s my story, as open and honest as I can tell it. If you were to tell me you think I wrote TOO much, revealed too much too soon, I’d probably nod in agreement. There is something to be said for both brevity and mystery. But I know what I want, and want my girl to know up-front who and how I am, so I choose to share a lot. I’m sure I could’ve done so with fewer words, but I tried…I swear, I really did. :) If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you.

My Ideal Person My main goal is to find a wonderful and exciting woman to play, explore, share in an intimate and loving relationship...but I'm in no rush. I'’m respectful and do not place expectations nor pressure. I'm also interested in meeting open-minded and friendly women and couples for play only. I'’m open to one-time encounters and lasting friendships. I can play versatile roles with couples, straight or with some bi-play, or with him participating or not as you please; I love being an exciting enhancement to your pleasure.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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