Life is busy and I'm tired of the daily grind. I'm in desperate need of a change of pace, something to add a little bit of excitement. I need a woman who is spontaneous and fun, is willing to try new things, be a little kinky at times - ya know, just those sexy things that have seemed to be lost over the course of my conventional relationship. Sometimes all I want it something hot, quick and dirty - not aggressive or mean, nothing bondage related - just hot and steamy! I long for that again and I don't foresee that taking place in my existing relationship. It's hard to say what I really want in the perfect "affair". Perhaps, it is because I like to change it up a bit, am bored of the monotony, and want a little bit of everything. Is that too much to ask? Maybe, but I suppose AFF is the place to find some excitement and variety in my life. Sometimes I want it classy and sexy - like the cute librarian or the sexy secretary, but the girl next door look is just as hot! I'm not desperate for sex, but I'm not overly picky either! I just want someone who's clean, secretive, and fun to be with. But if all you want is to meet up and get to it, that's cool, too. If you're looking for a guy to show up in a tuxedo, that guy is probably not me, but I can do business casual for our casual encounter. I'm far from metrosexual and while I'm well groomed, drug and disease free I'm very much a guy and don't intend to break that trend. I'm a gentleman though, so while I'm more than happy to be a bit more aggressive in our sexual encounter, I don't think I can cross the line of bondage fetish some women may want. If you want to know more, please hit me up and I'll get back to you.