Looking for a fit,adventuresome, open-minded lady who is looking for someone who likes to satisfy. Hey!!! I was competitive swimmer and now run my own business involving aquatic exercise. Which makes me one of the few that is actually still in the field I studied in school with a degree in Exercise Science. LOL I guess you could say that I am a hopeful romantic. I enjoy romance and fun. I'm attractive, 42 and stand at 6'0" . Enjoy good conversation, and love to have fun and joke around and laugh, although my sarcasm can sometimes be misinterpreted. I tend to lean toward the conservative side of things, but not in the bedroom (or wherever else we might be ;-) ). I am an optimist by heart and still hold onto my playfulness. I'm more of a "the glass is half full and the pitcher is on the way!" kind of guy. I am one of the guys that actually LIKES to communicate and have no problem expressing my feelings, wants and desires. I can surprise you. I can be found on a popular place on the internet where people go when they feel happy. (Whywho...wink wink) I answer to the same name. Why not take a chance? You never know. But be careful...you might like it!!! ;) UPDATE!!! Ok. I can't believe I actually have to put this on here, but I am NOT interested in ANYone that is in Ghana or anywhere else in Africa at this very moment. Not visiting there. Not living there. Not trapped there. LOL. If this doesn't apply to you, then you really should ask me about this because it is actually quite funny.

My Ideal Person Looking for an attractive woman to explore new things with and to get to know fully. She needs to be outgoing, intelligent, attractive, fun, playful, and in relatively good shape. I'm looking for someone who can take the control on occasions, likes to be controlled sometimes, and is not opposed to trying new things and being a little risky. A good personality is a must! I will say this as well. I am not at all interested in anyone whom I have to go check out some web site, check out their homepage where you have to sign up for anything, call some 900 number, or anything else like that. I'm interested in women who are genuine in wanting to get to know one another and meet. If you are pushing some web site, 900 number, or anything else like that, I'm not interested. Also, if you are giving out false email addresses in your profiles or replies, don't even bother replying. All others, I look forward to hearing from you. Looking for that special woman, a companion, a friend, a confidante and playmate!!! If you are intelligent, then you can find me at the place on line where you go if you are feeling happy and just want to yell. (Whywho!!. Wink wink) I answer to the same name. If you can figure out my little encryption, then I will look forward to hearing from you soon.

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I just wanted to add that I am tired of getting responses that tell me I have to go to some other site to talk to them or contact them. To me, this is just another ploy by you women that are just trying to make money at this whole thing. I'm not interested in any of that! Please answer ONLY if you are real and are sincere! If you are sincere and think that we could have some fun, then by all means get a hold of me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Not opposed to some of the others if the mood is right, Light bondage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Willingness to just play and have fun!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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