i was introduced into the lifestyle by One that frequents the basement. i am very grateful to Him for having taken the time to open my eyes to so much more than nilla life. i thank Him also for giving me my name which i wear proudly. i have been in the lifestyle now for about a year. i have experienced flogging, spanking and nipple clamps thus far and look forward to broadening my horizons and finding that special One that will help me achieve all my desires and needs. i strive to learn and know that there is much learning to do. i am not into playing any games or wasting mine or any O/ones time either so if that is what Y/you have in mind then please move on. i search for One that is ,trusting,confident,has self control,is wise,is honest,has communication skills, has the capacity to love , the desire to teach and finally One that has compassion. if You feel that You may be that One , i am willing to listen and chat with You in the room and get to know You as You get to know me.

My Ideal Person the most important things in a relationship are trust, communication and honesty. without those , there is nothing at all. if You are One that is chatting with me and private messaging another at the same time, please do not bother wasting my time. i believe that i should get respect and will always be respectful towards You in that manner as well. i belive that submission is a condition of the heart and it is a gift that is given, not taken or demanded. i search for the missing part of my own identity. One that will help me blossom and be the perfect part fo the puzzle, my soulmate.

onto another topic besides the lifestyle.

i am seeking to make new friends and sharing many experiences that close friendships bring therefore if you are interested in rendez-vous and perhaps some fun times, send a message and we will take it from there.

be well and always be safe.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ZZtop, Supertramp, Neil Diamond, Barbra Streisand, and
many more

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
i think of the posibilities of being tied up not being able
to touch the person that is touch me. i dont understand my
sexual desires anymore. i want to have sex all the time and
when i do, i feel like there is something missing, ,its
boring me kind of or it just doesnt satisfy me to the fullest.
I would like to experience reaching orgasms beyond my wildest
imagination. I find myself when playing in the shower or
with my toy always wanting more, ,, ,that i need more, ,, ,not
having reached the orgasm that i so desire and need.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub, I also fantasize about having sex in the back of a van while
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, couples/groups

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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