That kinda boils it down. So here's me -- 37, (apparently) decent looks, attached, brown hair, and in a definite and definitive dead bedroom situation. Infrequent assignations have proven to be a nice valve release on an overactive sex drive. And here's you -- probably in your late twenties through your early forties, but that's a fuzzy range in my experience. It's probably best if you're in the same sort of situation as me, but if you're a libertine who doesn't give a fuck about messing around with unavailable, secretive and spontaneous men... well, maybe let's talk. What would we talk about? That'd be the thing, I've found that the liais I've enjoyed the most are with witty, brainy, confident women with a good life on their hands. Let's talk about Star Wars or Seinfeld or our peral travels over a cold drink until we've built up some sort of ridiculous sexual tension we've gotta release.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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