[I]****WARNING**** Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future unless you send an original Van Gogh via insured certified mail. It is recommended that other smart-ass members post a notice similar to this.[/I] Update 7 July, 2013: I have gone forth wide-eyed into the realm of committed relationship. I will still be here to blog and chat with friends, but I will not be available for drinks, a date, or anything else. If you bothered to read this far, best of luck in your search--but I am not your grail. Make your move empowered with knowledge! CC Update 23 September, 2012: As a friend once said...I am not a one-in-a-million girl, I am a once-in-a-lifetime woman. Living life on my terms, and trying to enjoy each moment. Don't bother making plans if you are the sort to break them, you will not get a second chance. Read on for more...and check out my blog. Update 25 May, 2012: I've gone gray...why you ask? Because I MAY be a slut, but that doesn't mean I am YOUR slut! Oh, and by the way, I am not into younger guys, I hate to ask, and if you are married...not interested. Make your move empowered with knowledge! CC Update 22 August, 2011: To my Friends and Enemies, My previous health problems have stepped away for the time being. If you really want to know about me, read my blog. I hate to ask. I choose to surround myself with people that are healthy for me, so if you have drama, a bad attitude, lack of independent thought, or problems not being number one, then please look elsewhere. And I do not forget easily, so please do not be perfidious with me. I do not play with people in a committed relationship without the express knowledge and consent of their partner. Make your move empowered with knowledge! CC Update 2 December, 2010: To my Friends and Enemies, As time passes, so it seems things would change; but rather, the more they change, the more they stay the same. Life is treating me well, although I still have the occasional health problem that--while it throws a damper on my play, doesn't end it completely. I am beginning a new round in an alternative therapy, hoping it brings the problem to a close once and for all. 18 August, 09: To my Friends and Enemies alike, Life gets very busy, and I so value the friends that have stood by me. If you can't have open and frank discussions, if you have hang-ups about physical inconsistencies, please don't bother me. I have lots of friends and lovers who do and talk and don't care. Thanks to my everyone, you know who you are, here's to more great times! Update 4 February, 09: To my Friends and Enemies alike, For those of you who know me, you know the current burden I bear with the physical, and the reining-in that often happens at the least opportune times. Testing is complete, and treatment begins anew, hopefully with better results. For those of you who do not know me, currently I am not able to participate in the physical, and it would be quite unfair of me to lead you into believing that I am. If you are inclined to find a guest for the evening, I encourage you to look elsewhere. For those inclined to a gentler manner of persuasion, I can offer that I am a fairly good conversationalist, dancer, and overall friend. Choose your card carefully... I am an average, nice looking professional, with a wild private side. I don't want to date you, meet your parents, or marry you...I want good clean discreet fun. And if you are the type to break appointments, don't bother making one with me! Just to be clear, you must have at least an average IQ, and yes spelling sometimes does matter. You must be able to do more then make me scream (such as carry on a conversation over coffee--fully clothed--for an hour). I will not host, and probably not going to drive over an hour. You don't walk on water!! And while I respect and luv ya, no short dick men for me. For this diva, size does matter. Hurdles? Yes. Worth it? You decide. I tend to go back to my friends network...why not add me to yours? And since I am a standard member, please be patient for a reply, or open your account. Thanks and good luck in your search!

My Ideal Person Intelligence, empathy, patience, passion, and an unmitigating hunger.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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