I AM CURRENTLY WORKING AT TOTAL WINE IN PALM DESERT. MEET ME THERE IF YOU LIKE THIS PROFILE Hopefully, this long profile will tell you I am seeking a partner and lover. Everybody else is putting this in, so I guess I should protect myself as well: WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects ~ You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. I am a man who grew into a modestly handsome gentleman in his 30s and 40s. I am 5'8" and 170 pounds. I love women of all sizes, but I tend to prefer women who are my size or shorter and with voluptuous curves. And if this requirement sounds appalling, please remember: I am a man. That makes me genetically inferior to a woman because I am visually oriented. I want to look at a woman's curves and feel those curves next to my skin. I especially love bellies--belly dancers have fascinated and aroused me since I was 12. I will happily fall for the right woman between the ages of 33 and 53. Oh, and this will sound downright wimpy in this cyber-amusement park, but I am not a raunchy, slam-bam-thank-you-ma'am kind of lover. I really like slow, passionate evenings of kissing, foreplay and multiple female orgasms. I like hair-pulling, but I am not a man who rides his woman like a bucking bronco--I actually like my hair pulled while I am perforning cunnilingus or analingus. I believe I possess many great qualities. (Note: I will not lie to you. I am not rich. I live in a cozy apartment in Cathedral City and I do not own a car. I lived beyond my means and could no longer afford my car. Now, I am more practical and live a much more spartan life. I take the bus everywhere and have no problems meeting people at the movies or a great place to eat. Also, I feel I must stress: I once loved a woman who lived 5 hours away, and when I had a car, I drove the five hours to happily see her every other week--she was worth it, and so was I. I have a wonderful life, but I do not live extravagantly. Shopping in second-hand stores is one of my true passions--especially, because the rich give away so much nice clothing in the Palm Springs area.) Romantic (Kissing is as important to me as acrobatic sex. I need and crave a dynamic kisser in my life.) Grateful Spiritual, but not religious Optimistic (but not naive; I just prefer a sunny outlook though I am aware the world has as much evil as good in it) Movie lover (foreign and independent films; I used to be a film critic. Unless they are exceptional or genuinely fun or inventive--I tend to stay away from Hollywood product) Cartoon lover (specifically The Simpsons, Futurama and all of the Pixar films) Cat and lover (I have one cat, Jasmine, four years old and a total sweetheart,) I am looking for her human equivalent; she is tender, luxuriantly sexy, pleasantly lazy, kind and loving. Non-parent: I am not an ideal match for anybody with . Redhead lover (The essayist Michael Ventura has a remarkable phrase: "Never dye your hair unless you are a woman over 40, and then only dye it the color of my obsessions.") Wine lover (I used to be a wine captain at a steakhouse in Palm Desert, and love good Pinots, Chardonnays and Cabernets. I also love to drive. Let's take trips to Santa Barbara and San Luis Obispo this summer to taste wonderful California wines!) Music lover (3800 songs on my iPod--lots of folk, rock, folk-rock and what I would classify as "good" country; not rednecks waving flags and hating foreigners and abusing women, but men and women singing of love and the world we inhabit) Note: I am not a fan of American Idol. Youthful (I love staying at home, but I also love an evening out shooting pool or dining at fast-food joints, moderately priced restaurants and high-end establisments) Book lover (I like very exotic and intelligent novels. Some of my favorite authors are Jose Saramago, Salman Rushdie, Cormac McCarthy, Richard Flanagan, Milan Kundera and Gabriel Garcia Marquez.) Liberal in my views, but not radical. I believe in very mainstream values like health care for all and freedom for religion (and from religious zealotry). I call myself a Lexustentialist: I love the comforts of the modern world and I understand my luxury is possible because other people have too little. I am not happy about that, but I have reconciled it in my mind. Love little day hikes, but not camping (I am not the rugged sleeping on the ground type, sadly.) If you have read all this and recognize a kindred spirit--please contact me. I am ready for the romance and love to overflow in my life again.

My Ideal Person I seek the female equivalent of creme brulee--rich, creamy, mouth-watering, elegant and sophisticated.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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