I am a 48 year old African American female who is looking for fun. I have done this before, and so I really know what I want. I am looking to expand life my experiences. Life is too short to not want to meet new people and try new things. I also know that sometimes that must be done discreetly. While it has been a while since I have been on the site, some things never change...I am not looking for a serious commitment. And while I may be open to that eventually, it is not what I am currently looking for. I am, however, looking for good companionship, good conversation, a good bottle of wine, good music, and just having relaxing time. These things don't have to be inclusive or exclusive of each other. I am a thick sister with 44-DDD's. I enjoy my size and feel real comfortable with what i have been given. I enjoy stimulating conversations, movies, good restaurants, cooking, sports (football in particular,though I can live with basketball if I have too)and new experiences. Interesting evenings can include any or all of the above. I am not easy, or desparate. I can meet people in other ways, if i so desire. My current life situation does not allow me to do so, but you must understand this,you can't just come to me any type of way. It really is a mental journey for me, so if you come at me with something that is, for lack of a better word, stupid, then your response will from me will equal your stupidity. I believe that the mind is the biggest sexual organ we have. If we can't talk, how can we share what we want from each other. If we don't use our minds, how can we create new sensations with each other. Physical pleasures are temporary, Mental pleasures can last a lifetime....It's all about the Sensual Journey...Do you want to go with me?

My Ideal Person A man or woman who is fun to be with, enjoys good conversation, and a good laugh. Someone who can handle a big beautiful black woman who is ready for a sensual experience with the lack of strings. Someone that has read my profile, not just looked at the pictures, and knows how to come correct. Someone who can understand that it is not always that deep, but it still can be deep enough. Someone who understands that mental stimulation is the best form of foreplay.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite sexual fantasy is meeting and being with a stranger. we meet in a hotel bar, engage in stimulating conversation, and go to a room where we can enjoy and please each other

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no celebrity in particular

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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