Hello, first things first....Attached male here whose partner used to play and no longer wishes to. I respect her wishes naturally, but do sometimes play alone when the opportunity arises and I when I am able to do so without causing embarrassment, which means she remains unaware. I do have a lady friend who is in a similar position and every so often the opportunity arises for us to play together, but to be honest not that often... So, having got that out of the way if you are still reading hello again. What do I enjoy? Well, I am a bloke. I guess I enjoy it all. But it seems to fall into two categories, vanilla and spicy. In vanilla mode, I am told I am good company, considerate, non-judgemental, know my way around a menu and wine list am a good listener and can hold an intelligent conversation. And I hope too a good lover who enjoys playing with ladies and couples where the man is straight. But sometimes..... I slip into spicy mode. Well downright kinky really. I enjoy dressing – fetish or femme – and then the exhibitionist in me comes out. I play here on cam sometimes and I am happy to perform for ladies, couples and even imaginative and intelligent men. I have discovered I can be quite compliant. And if playing on-line is not enough then I may well meet too. OK, I do not have too much experience but what little I have I have enjoyed immensely. With a couple of friends we hired a dungeon - great fun. So if you have an idea, why not ask? I am in my late fifties, but still slim, fit, clean shaven, dark with a Mediterranean complexion (although English) no tattoos, own teeth and all that. If only I had all my hair! I am virtually retired which allows time to play, including daytimes and some evenings but not evening at the weekend. The work I do still do involves some travel in the UK and continent so I am fairly flexible. So, if you want to get in touch that would be good. And if you see me here on line; why not say ‘hello’ Have fun!

My Ideal Person Someone, or people, like me. Slim and attractive helps, albeit not in the first bloom of youth, so don't worry about the odd blemish! I enjoy a reasonable standard of living without being snobbish about it.