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rm_humanist_gay 61 / M
"Gold Coast Cocksucker Seeks Local Buds"
Port Hueneme, California, United States
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rm_humanist_gay 61/M
Port Hueneme, California
Daytime is best for me. Look for me on IM, I might be there!
I can only respond if you message me first. Don't be shy; drop me a line. I give great head, am clean, HIV-neg, discreet, and an all-around Nice Guy. Yeah, I'm gay -- but you don't have to be. It goes like this: We agree to a time (you host); I show up with a firm handshake; you get a mind-blowing blowjob; and I leave with a smile on my face. What's not to like about that? ;) Sure, I like more than just blowing guys. I'm sporting nearly 7" cut and my ass likes a lot of attention. If you have a hankering to spank you can really go for it. My nipples are really sensitive and hardwired to my butt (chew on my chest and I'm likely to grab your cock and try to shove it up my ass). I love getting sucked off, too. And I appreciate sensuality over mere mechanics. "Foreplay is Fair Play" as the saying goes and I like a lot of it -- touch, massage, kissing, etc. I really enjoy watching guys stroke on cam (thanks, you guys ROCK!) and watching men fuck either men or women -- I guess I'm primarily a voyeur at heart. And even though I'm "gay" I like watching str8 couples about as much as I enjoy watching man-on-man sex. Go figure. Sexuality is so fluid... So long as the men are attractive to me, I'm into it. Checking out "who's broadcasting" is a lot of fun on AFF -- I've found some pretty hot guys pounding their dicks for show -- some of them will even chat with me, and I appreciate it. I'm fast building a hotlist of horny show-dogs. I'm always on the look-out for non-sexual friendships too, and I do enjoy chatting with guys from all over the place, so drop me a line even if you're not in my area. I've made a couple of long-distance pals already -- nice to know you guys are out there and what you've been up to. I appreciate the good vibes and the camaraderie! Btw, I'm 420-friendly, though I rarely indulge, and never seem to have the stuff on me (do you? WINK). Always cool to chill with a like-minded friend -- sex or no sex. Life is short, let's enjoy every moment!

My Ideal Person Generally prefer the guy-next-door type -- a handsome face and a big dick. Hairy a plus, but not necessary. Average builds preferred (sure, muscular is nice, but a bit of a belly doesn't matter-- I'm stocky myself). Faces matter to me (more than abs), so send me a face pic if you have one. Like I said, I'm gay but you don't have to be. Frankly, I dislike labels -- I think they limit us.

Just Be Yourself, okay?

Looking particularly for cool guys along the Gold Coast: Ventura, Oxnard and Port Hueneme, CA.

I do get down to Los Angeles every couple of months -- if you're in LA, don't overlook me; it might be nice to meet up while I'm down there sometime (it's happened before, so it's not a long-shot by any means).

And if you cam and you're checking my profile, please know in advance that whatever your sexual orientation or preference, I really appreciate being able to view you doing your thing. I love a guy who likes to show off, who digs being watched, and puts on a good show.

Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, General Intelligence

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 61 / male
  • Port Hueneme, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Gay / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Men or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: June 26, 1962
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Ample
Race: Caucasian
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
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