She is a 29-year-old bisexual and he is 43,and bi-curious, which to us means while he is open to a relationship with another male the ideal per or opportunity has never presented itself. We are an eclectic couple,who, when we find time, try to stay involved in all kinds of community service. It is an important part of our spirituality and is our only "politics". We value community, be it the inclusive circle of our friends, our neighborhood, the city, or world. We strive to make the word community peral instead of a geographic description. We feel as a married couple and as individuals, we are always evolving. He has been poly all his life, not knowing it had a name until 1999, when he stumbled upon an internet article on a Seattle poly potluck. She from age of 16 found herself wishing that she could date two people at the same time. However, because of upbringing, she would go with one, break up, go with other, break up, go with first again, break up, go with other again, break up, and repeat. It was after high school that she found that it was possible to have "open relationships”. This led her to eventually finding “polyamory” which incorporates more of her beliefs. We enjoy the outdoors and find pleasure in camping, hiking and canoing (although she is “just ever so slightly” afraid of open water, a remnant of almost drowning at age 4). He is an organic gardener and we both are interested in herbs and holistic alternatives. We also are always looking for ways to be more green and leave a smaller foot print. We love festivals and fairies from art/musical festivals to music events to polyamory/pagan conferences. Art and creativity are a manifestation of the spiritual and we place value on our own and others’ creativity. We are both learning to express ourselves in several different mediums. We both also enjoy tasteful body art. She has at present time: three meaningful tattoos; and her ears, nose, nipples and belly button are all pierced. He has three meaningful tattoos; and his ears and nipples pierced.We have taste that run to goth,punk,hippie yet we still have some old fashioned sensibilities.we are fiercely loyal and honest, compassionate, and self-confident without the ego trip. we are very honest with one another and we are not looking for just sex. We are seeking friends and activity partners which have potential to develop into long term relationships. While we have listed a few things we enjoy we are always open too new experiences and learning about what interest others. We look at profiles as quick snapshots of an individual or couple not encompassing Manifestos of who they are. We are also a respecter of all cultures and nations

My Ideal Person LOOKING FOR:
Our Ideal Person(s)are A female or couple who are open minded, creative, playful, independent, and healthy of mind and body. A non-possessive person(s), who thinks that relationships should enhance a person’s life, not BE a person’s life.
We are NOT looking for people who seek perfection, as much as those who enjoy progress and improvement.What we idealize is a couple or female to life partner with have children and convert the duplex we own into one big house again, however we realize this is a process and don’t have rigid expectations or timelines. We try to plan the plan not the results
We hope that this has been an enjoyable profile to read and we hope to hear from you, even if only as a new friend.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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