WARNING: Any institutions using this site or its associated sites for studies or projects - YOU DO NOT have MY permission to use any of MY profile or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of MY privacy and will be subject to legal ramification. I am a mature gentleman in a very empty marriage. My wife lives in her own world and wants me to live in mine. If my being married is a problem for you, at least allow me to explain. Since I cannot change my situation at home, I am looking for a woman who may have the same needs and desires that I have. I want to have a discreet, mutually beneficial affair. I am neither a crude or vulgar per, but I am very sensual and passionate. I wish to share this passion with the right lady. I want us to have a very comfortable, laid back and trusting friendship... then let things flow, develop naturally. I have been in the performing and graphic arts all of my life and KNOW that making love is the ultimate art!! I would love to create many wonderful masterpieces of sensual art with my lover. Age, race, body style are unimportant, but our intellectual "chemistry" is all important. I am looking for one lover,..my only lover. I have had a vasectomy, so no babies. I don't sleep around, have no STDs and will never bring you one. I have reaable stamina and absolutely LOVE giving oral to a receptive lady. This is a passion of mine. I am not particularly kinky, but very open to new ideas. I am not one for "jumping on and getting it over with." I love stretching out the joys of love making over hours and hours. I will never deceive anyone or misrepresent myself to anyone. I am in a unique position to be free some days, some nights, some weekends. I even have a place that we can meet discreetly. I don't want any binding strings, but I do want us to have a very trusting, comfortable friendship. I love touching, fondling, caressing, kissing, and anything that we mutually agree is fun for us. You may find me rather unlike many men, particularly men my age. I am very much an optimist and have a huge zest for life. Please respond and let's explore the wonderful possibilities.

My Ideal Person I am looking or a woman who wishes a decent, trustworthy, clean, sexually creative man for a friend and playpartner. Physical looks are unimportant, but what is in her head and heart are. Extra padding is a plus. I would prefer that she be married, but that is not carved in stone by any means. I would hope that she might like to be a little adventurous... and appreciate a man lavishing hours of passion, playful penetration, talented oral, massages, and anything else that we mutually find satisfying on her. I don't want us to fall in love, but we can "fall in friendship." My lady need not be a fashion model or any sort of calendar girl. I do prefer a mature woman, but will consider any woman between 28 and 80. Yes, let's meet and create may wonderful masterpieces of passionate art.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Clancy Brothers, New York Philharmonic, New Christy Minstrels, Local
string bands

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies"

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, must love to receive oral, too

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't fantsize about a celebrity... I want a real
woman... looks don't matter

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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