I am in the des moines area, married but looking friends to be discreet, but also have fun when we can spend time together. I'm not looking to travel or for anything more than friends. i am already committed and not looking to leave. My wife and I are ok with what we do on the side, however we respect our marriage and do not take time from each other to spend time with others, some say this is weird but it works for us. I am not looking for you to join us or any surprises like that, just enjoy a friendship and see where it leads. I do not have a picture up here simply because of our situation, if someone we know is one here, well it could get awkward if they know how my wife and i are. I am more than willing to email a picture, I'm not scared i am a good looking guy who loves to keep things real and interesting. so let me know if your interested.. hope to hear from you soon!

My Ideal Person someone discreet who can let it all out in the bedroom. and also respect my situation.