Professional, educated couple in the south-central Michigan area looking for great people, great conversations, and great fun. We've built a solid marriage of two decades and we've opened up our marriage for the last half of that. And still going strong! Along the way we've had some amazing experiences. The more the merrier--we're looking for special people with whom we can share even more amazing experiences. She's a workout fanatic, thrift store maven, and avid reader. He's a gamer geek, creative writer, and foodie. We have had our hands (and other parts!) in various alternate lifestyles: swing, poly, and kink. We're pretty flexible folks--we've moved in many circles and we've picked up some great friends along the way. We don't form judgments too easily, we try to look at the bright side of things whenever we can, and we can enjoy both the party times and the quiet talks.

My Ideal Person We have very few pre-conceived requirements. Some of them are, well, obvious: no alcohol or drug abuse, no criminal activity.

We could list a few traits of our ideal people to hang out with here, but we've met so many different kinds of happy and awesome people, that it's hard for us to list any number of traits that don't work for us.

That said, for BEST RESULTS with us: please have a great sense of humor, be open-minded and non-judgmental, be able to hold a decent and intelligent conversation, and be ready to ask as many questions as we might!