Ex-roadie turned college student in computer science and engineering (yeah, I'm kinda nerdy) looking for FWB, NSA, etc... No huge emotional connections beyond friendship. Don't let the screen name fool you- I'm really a nice guy who is compassionate, honest, and open-minded. Also, my Cupid settings have ranges set for age, race, etc., as does everyone's. I find all races and ages attractive, but since the setting options are very "black and white, yes or no," I can't say I like this girl over that one, even though they have the same specs, ya know? So if you're interested in me, but are a few miles out of my range, not one of he races I generally look for, or are a little older than what my profile says, hit me up anyways. You just might be someone I'm looking for! I generally look for someone within a 30 mi radius, but I have been known to make exceptions for the right person. Now then, I really love to laugh, and I have a great (sometimes inappropriate) sense of humor. My motto: "If you can't have fun, make fun (even if the thing you're making fun of isn't always the best choice)" And most of the time, if it weren't for my bad jokes, I'd have no jokes at all!! But at least I have jokes! Married, but wife knows about and supports (actually even encourages) extra-curricular play. I enjoy spending time with all races, cultures, and creeds as long as you can hold a conversation using proper English -not into ebonics or "rapper speak", and you must be able to write in complete sentences, not text language. Also, ladies, shave or wax that thing -no one likes hair in their food! I LOVE performing oral and giving full-body massages. Ready to have some fun!! But if you aren't in my geographical area, don't bother -not interested in people from the other side of the country or world unless you are planning on visiting Atlanta some time soon... :)

My Ideal Person I think it'd be easier to say what I'm NOT looking for:

1. Obesity: While I'm not the most "in-shape" person online, I can't say that fat women interest me at all. I don't mind "big boned" women, but if when you lay down, it looks like you melted on the bed, or you resemble a distant cousin to Shamu, or you could be harvested for blubber to power oil lamps in small Alaskan Eskimo villages, I can't see myself getting aroused by you...
2. Make-up: I am not into women who have to use a lot of make-up to look pretty. I believe make-up was designed to enhance a woman's natural beauty, not cover up her lack thereof. So if you could peal your make-up off in a single sheet, resemble Mimi of the Drew Carry show, have a visible line on your neck where your make-up ends and your neck begins, or insist upon "putting on your face" before leaving the house, I'm sorry, but I'm not going to find you attractive.
3. Diva-ism: While I find women of any age or race attractive, I'm not into the "diva", sense of entitlement that some women possess. So if you think we should be friends because the world owes you that, I'd rather punch you in the throat than give you the time of day. Humility and a genuine character are attractive as hell to me, but don't come at me like you're the shit and I should talk to you because you're better than everyone else. I like confidence, but not bitch.

Other than these three things, I welcome any woman as a friend, possibly more.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nah... celebs are just people. Nothing exciting about
them except their paycheck...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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