5/5/09-UPDATE Still not looking to meet individual men, BUT--my boyfriend and I are interested in meeting for discreet and safe swinging. We are interracial and are open to meeting other couples who are into black men and/or interracial sex. Bi-curious women also welcome, but not required, as I am interested somewhat but could go with no contact as well. Please note: we'd prefer no photos of any encounters as discretion is vital for us to enjoy ourselves fully. 8/21/08 UPDATE: I am officially "off the market." I met a great guy here (believe it or not!) and am very happy. I had a blast on this site, met some wonderful people and had some wild fun, but I've found what I wanted. My man is one in a million. Who says all the good ones are taken?!? So keep writing, stay in touch, send your thoughts or ask me mine...but I'm now a one-man girl. Take care and good luck in your searches! XOXOXO, "Rule My World" Curvy, sensuous, smart, sophisticated, romantic, passionate...those are the words I hear about myself often. I'm looking for a selective guy who wants to have fun but isn't out to build his sexual resume. Not looking for a big deal relationship, but not strictly a hook-up either. In my book, "no strings" is not synonymous with "no manners" or "no class." Just adult fun between two people who bring intelligence, wit, kindness and discretion to the bedroom and beyond. I'm good company and love a take-charge man who I can submit to (but not in a BDSM way). I'm a romantic and love to treat my man like a king. Are you worthy to be crowned? Let's find out....

My Ideal Person I want a man who knows what he wants and takes it. Passive guys really do nothing for me--I want to be the girl. I adore men with a sense of humor, a sense of their place in the world, confident, sophisticated and intelligent. A man who can take sex from beyond the basics to bliss is my kind of man. Anyone can do it; the question is how do you do it? Make your mark on me, and chances are you'll be given the keys to my kingdom.
PLEASE NOTE: I'M NOT INTO MARRIED OR BI-CURIOUS GUYS. Also, guys who can't or won't take time to send me a personal (not cut & paste) e-mail won't get a reply. Bonus points freely given for literacy!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I love the thought of a sugar daddy. Not in the financial
sense (well, if he wants to that's fine), but in the
protector sense. If I'm not good, he gives me a little
spanking, then asks me to show him how sorry I am....I start
on my knees and work my way up. I've always wanted to
do this using an old-fashioned shoeshine chair. Antiques
Roadshow, anyone? <br><br>
I also love the thought of an "inappropriate"
massage. Probably from all the times I got such a great massage
that I wanted to roll over and have them handle the other
10% of me! I also love the thought of wearing beautiful,
sexy lingerie--but it can only come off if my man can get
it off using just his teeth....exquisite torture! <br><br>
I also would love to showup at a ski resort wearing a fur coat
(PETA be damned) with nothing on underneath except a garter
belt, stockings and bra. Surprise! <br><br>
Oh, and I love the thought of having a black master, where
I'm his slave. Chain me to the bed and make me do it on
a Confederate flag! Very politically incorrect, but hey,
it's my fantasy!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room, In the window of Victoria's Secret!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, 69, Doggiestyle

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The number #1 guy has to be Dennis Haysbert ("24").
Every time I see him in the All-State Insurance commercial
and he says "Are you in good hands?" I think "No,
but I'd like to be...come on over!" <br><br>
And if I ever had sex for the money, Warren Buffet would become
pretty handsome! :)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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