I really don't like these long profile thingys...its simple...Im middle aged,and love to have fun...I miss a warm embrace and all that comes with it. I am submissive in the bedroom only, however it takes a special type of individual to open that door. Respect is key both ways. I do not " hook up" so if a one night stand is what your looking for, look elsewhere please. I prefer to have a connection with the per I choose to spend time with. I am complicated, and filled with oxymorons. Passion is my middle name, no matter what I do, so if your not passionate, please don't bother. I curse like a sailor ( working on that ) and I have flaws....if your judgmental, keep it moving, I don't have the desire or time to hear it. I am blunt, and often times have no filter, so if you ask me if your ass looks fat in those jeans, my answer will probably be, if you have to ask, you know it does. I am also extremely sarcastic, dry humor is never lost on me. On the flip side, I am kind, generous and caring, neutering, not so much maybe, but for the people I care about the most, I will hide a body. ( disclaimer: really just using that as an example.....please do not kill anyone and knock on my door ) :D

My Ideal Person Strong, caring, and can manage me. I can be a handful. Wise enough to know that I am independent and make my own decisions, and strong enough to know when to take over and how to do it. Clean is a must, I am DD Free and I expect you to be as well, no room for negotiation there Tall is great, but not a deal breaker, looks are not a deal breaker, attitude is. If you can make me laugh constantly, your golden, if by chance you look like Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum....you can have a bad attitude and get away with it for a night....lol. Love to all , and happy hunting.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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