I will save 80% of you some time by telling you: "Yes, I am married. No, she doesn't participate or know." I know not everyone will like that fact but you know...45 is too old to explain my choice in life to anyone. I've been thinking of fulfilling a fantasy of mine. I've been involved with couples 3 times over the years. All three times its been with a straight couple. It's very erotic taking another man's wife while he watches. I'm hoping there is a progressive couple that will entertain my next fantasy. I would love to find an attractive couple with a bi or bi-curious male. This would be extremely discrete. Any takers? I have not only had 2-3 relationships with females but also 2 with couples. Couples can be extremely excited for so many reas: the thrill for the wife to be with another; the expression on the husband's face. I prefer relationships that last more than just one night--sometimes it takes 2, 3 or 50 times to get it right...lol.

My Ideal Person OK. An interesting imaginative confident couple or female. A relationship that starts slow but eventually tests everyone's limits. It's all in fun and for enjoyment!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have several sexual fantasies...and they really vary.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
A celebrity??? Those headcases?? I don't think so.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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