Hi, don't wink plz - send a message. Winks cannot get response cos we are junior members. We are a mixed couple finding our way. We are interested in travel, swapping our hosting for yours -we stay with you, you stay with us, mostly in South Africa unless you are rich enough to subsidise our air fare! He is intellectual, photographer (amateur but good) she is quiet and very flexible. We are real explorers of people and places and true exhibitionists when it comes to sex. Love games with penalties and rewards, but not money penalties! We have often been told that we are really good at sexy exhibitions on the net but have stopped that as it is too public. Ebony lady is a hot favourite and his pics of her are truly horny.

My Ideal Person We are looking for confident people who are patient and not easily offended. People who are considerate and polite, maybe generous as we are struggling a bit just now, but not necessarily.

People with privacy. Love a jacuzzi together! People to relax with. Parties are ok, yes a good idea if it is an orgy, but we hate noise and smoke.