Thanks for dropping in. Look, I'm not good at this sort of thing to be quite honest, and I beleive that honesty is the best policy (to use a beat up cold cliche), so lets cut through the chase and lay it out: Married male, mid-thirties, in open marriage. For the last three years I have had many intense fantasies and dreams about sexual encounters with other men, or playing with a bi-couple (MF or MM), and even some about playing with cute cross dressers. The fantasies persist, even grow more intense as the months go by. It's about time I got out there and acted upon these fantasies and find out once and for all if I am a bi-sexual or if the concept of the taboo is the real turn-on for me.

My Ideal Person So I'm looking for playmates. I'm not really into the whole one-night-stand thing, but I am not looking for a serious relationship either. Best case scenario, a friend (or friends) with benefits. People I like and respect and can enjoy a conversation with. I realize that is a tall order, so I am keeping an open mind here. If the right guy, couple or CD comes along who only wants a short term thing, I can still glean valuable life experience out of that and maybe that person will enjoy it. Maybe I'll enjoy it. Maybe I'll like it so much that I join both teams (so to speak!). I just don't know... and that's part of the fun isn't it?

Please be patient and respectful. As I said, I'm not sure where my limits are. The only way to learn them is through experience. At any time I may feel things are progressing to an uncomfortable point for me, or going too fast/hard at least... so if I say stop I need to know that my partner will stop! If you do not think you can do this, please don't bother contacting me. It will save us both a lot of trouble in the end!

If the idea of inducting me into bi-sexuality turns you on, you are patient and cool, and think you could help me out....... by all means get in touch!

This is not to say that I frown upon women getting in touch with me either. Women are and always will be my achilles heel, I love them in all shapes and sizes and nothing turns me on more than making a woman quiver in ecstasy (so far, at least!). I adore older women, love BBWs, have a big thing for african american and hispanic women and generally love the shape and feel of the female body. Playful, friendly and stable women looking for a fling or friends with benefits are more than welcome to contact me!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I meet up with a married couple outdoors at 3am, it's
quiet and nobody to be seen. We find a sheltered and somewhat
safe area outside and begin to fool around. We all begin
groping, caressing and nibbling on each other, letting
our hands explore each other until the clothes start to
come off and we all lay back on a spread blanket and begin
touching, licking and massaching each others bare flesh.
Soon the couple lay me back and the woman begins c=sucking
my cock, slowly but steadily. After a moment the man joins
in and starts gently cupping my balls and working a few fingers
around my asshole, gradually applying more pressure but
not quit penetrating. As I get more turned on he grinds his
thumb around my asshole and takes over cock-sucking duties
from the woman - who now begins nibbling and licking me all
over as the man begins to woek my cock with his mouth and stimulating
my asshole with his fingers. The woman finally licks her
own fingers and slowly slides one a quarter of the way into
my ass as the man licks the top-side of my shaft. I'm
about to explode and the couple realize it, and the cock
play stops. Now it's my turn. With the man laying on
his side, the woman motions for me and we both lie horizontally
with the man with our faces meeting in the man's crotch
area. She grips his cock and swirls her tongue around the
head of his cock, ending with a slight flick of her tongue
on the underside of the head which makes the man let out a
gasp. The woman tilts the cock towards me and becons me to
do the same. Nervously I do, and I get the same reaction.
Feeling the mans body tense, hearing his gasp, and feeling
his cock tighten ever so subtly ..... it excites me and I
take as much of the cock into my mouth as I can fit withou gagging.
Over the next ten minutes the woman keeps showing me little
techniques for sucking a cock and making the man squirm
in ecstasy, with me repeating the technique and being corrected
on occasion. As I jerk the trunk of the cock as I lick at the
head I feel the cock tighten again, then plump up in my hand.
A low moan comes from the man and he shoots his load onto my
chest. THe man spent lies back while the woman towels off
my chest and begins running a single finger up the shaft
of my cock. Before I know it she is pushing me back and straddling
my cock. She rides it and grinds her hips in circular motions
until I begin to moan. She changes the rythym and climbs
off. She motions for the man, who turns over and puts his
ass in the air. The woman sits me up and leads me to the man,
positioning me and taking my cock in her hand and slowly
guiding it into the mans ass. The woman controls the pace,
her hands often on my hips and lower back. Occasionally
she fingers at my asshole shallowly and applies pressure.
Finally I lose my composure and have to pull out just in time
to blow my wad all over the mans ass and the woman's hands,
which are firmly but gently milking the remaining come
out of my prick. We all get cleaned up as best we can and depart,
but not before agreeing to meet again in a months time to
play some more.. and to learn some more.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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