We are VERY close friends, confidantes (as well as lovers), VERY much committed to each other (and yes, we do have an open relationship)--who are curious and wish to explore world of swinging together. We find the idea to be very spicy, erotic, exciting--mostly interested in soft swing intially (then see where it goes from there--on a couple-by-couple or per-by-per basis). We are laid back, easy going, non-demanding, playful, fun loving. Both are bright, creative, curious, imaginative, inventive--very open-minded and open to consideration of new adventures, experimentation, exploration. We are both VERY sensual, playful, uninhibited, consider sex(when properly approached!!!) to be truly a JOY, a shared intimacy. We would be very interested in hearing about (and perhaps cooperating in fulfillment of???) YOUR fantasies, desires--as well as our own. Both love lots of foreplay, afterplay (long drawn out lovemaking with lots of teasing and anticipation). We would be happy to discuss in further detail in one-on-one basis online if you are interested. All in all, we are eager to expand our horizons, try new "flavors" (we are not REALLY all that "vanilla"-ish as name implies--lol) MiLady is a relative "newbie" however as regards the world of swinging--so patience is expected. As for what we dislike???--that would be liars, cheats, pushiness, arrogance, people who can't grasp meaning of word "no"--PLEASE respect OUR limits as we will respect YOURS!!!--[B]this is an absolute essential[/B]. Limits, of course, would vary with the comfort level we felt with our "play partners"--how well we knew them, trusted them--and vice versa...Hugs n smooches and have a great day, Lillian and Dale

My Ideal Person We are interested in getting to know couples or select singles (of either sex). People who are respectful, open-minded, playful, uninhibited, free of hangups--and fun OUT of, as well as IN, the bedroom (i.e. personable)--that is to say, people whose personalities and attitudes mesh with ours (We seek FRIENDS as well as play partners)--much prefer ongoing relationships with a few "friends with benefits" play partners to a series of casual one nighter-type "fuckbuddy" encounters--which are not only dangerous, degrading, demeaning--but ultimately drab, boring (we would rather watch TV or masturbate frankly)...We want people who are drug/disease free!!! (as we are), who are selective in choice of their friends and play partners (as we are) and who exercise discretion (as we do)..Sense of humor, playful attitude is an absolute must!!!...

hugggs n' smooches, Lilli-an-Dale

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Hard question really--We have had a lot of fantasies--most
of which we have fulfilled...and plan to fulfill again...and again...and again

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere, all sorts of possibilties here

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, open to suggestion always

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
nah--not really...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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