READ THIS PART FIRST If you email me, you are giving me blatant permission to link to your profile, blog, and to copy and paste your words into whatever venue I see fit. I am petite and curvy. My friends say I have two speeds 90 miles an hour and out cold - lol. I like to walk the beach, read, and take martial arts. Caring, passionate, easy going, intellectual, (I am more mental than physical), gemini with the duality to go with it - lol. I am a free spirit and do not do exclusive relationships. CUSTOMER HELP SECTION (more in blog [blog velvttouch]): Send a picture from your phone to your computer: go to the picture on your phone, select options, select send, type in your email address, select send Save a picture from your email to your computer: go to your email, save your picture to your desktop (usually open email and right click on picture and save as just make sure you save to desktop or folder where you can find it) Attach a photo to your aff email: in Adult FriendFinder hit reply to my email, go down to where it says attachments, select browse, go find the picture you saved to your computer, click on the picture, click open

My Ideal Person I want someone who can carry on a conversation and has a sense of humor. Smart asses are welcome. Kind, gentle, has manners a bonus. Someone who understands common courteous and will give me at least the same consideration you would give a business contact if not more. I have been to a few private swingers parties and enjoyed the experience and would like to have more experiences with the right group.

1. Please attach photos to your email. Standard members can't enlarge photos and see what you look like...and please no cock shots. I want to see your other head...lol.

2. Please do not contact me if you are in an exclusive relationship or if you are just looking for someone to talk dirty to you on the phone or the computer or if you are just looking for someone to bang for one night---lol.

3. I am not interviewing people and I don't want to be interrogated. I want to meet people and get to know them with the intention of becoming friends. If we go any farther cool if not that is cool too.

4. I don't think I should have to say this but I have been informed that I am not clear enough...lol. I do not want no strings attached sex. If you consider common courtousy and friendship strings, then I want strings but very loose strings. I want men to be friends with that i may have sex with. I don't want men that fuck me and call it friendship. It is not the same thing.

5. If I was a new male member to AdultFriendFinder I would complain. Only gold memebers are allowed to contact you or look at your profile for the first three days of your memebership. With the male to female ratio on here that is not a benefit to you...lol also, if you mention another communication program in your email it will be deleted by customer service and end up in the bulk folder.

6. Life is a dance, an interaction between two people, a cooperation.. i move and you follow, you move and i follow. It isn't any fun if one half is always stepping on the others feet because they can't follow a lead...lol

7. Watch the show Life on NBC. If you don't understand it, you probably won't understand me...lol.

8. I had a man tell me recently that all the women on here sound angry...lol. Well I dare any of you to read some of the emails I have gotten over the last two years and not get angry (I put an example in my blog if you want to read it..lol). But I also try to laugh about it and get you to laugh about it with me.

9. View me and approach me as a person first. I have a problem being viewed as a sexual object by strangers(but not by my friends...lol). I think I am your average girl next store with a few kinks in the closet..lol and that if you want a sexual object you should go buy a playboy..lol or a doll. Yes i know i have some interesting pictures but that is just a small part of me.

10. I realise alot of men on here are just looking for a sexual object. I am looking for men or couples that can share the people in their lives in open relationships. You will not change my mind. I know what I want.

11. I am a standard member allowed a limited number of emails a day. If we are having a conversation and I suddenly disappear, it is because i have run out of emails for the day. So if you have another way to contact me do so...lol

12. If you treat our email exchange, phone calls or first meet and greet like a negotiation for what type of sex or relationship we are going to have that is not going to work for me. It is too cold and a complete turn off. Chill! lol Hang out. Go with the flow. If you treat me like a person and there is a connection and an attraction then the sex will come. and maybe so will you...lol