We are a very much in love couple who love to make new friends for more than just fun between the sheets, we are very open and very social. We both know that neither of us can be replaced and we have great respect for others and would never consider coming between another couple. The lifestyle is about supporting relationships and augmenting the happiness and pleasure of other couples as well as our own. We do not judge, love to stay fun and drama free. We are as real as it gets. With many years of swinging experience between us, we get what the lifestyle is all about and approach it in a very respectful manner. We ask permission to touch, kiss and play and would expect the same in return. Everything should be said and done out in the open and all in agreement. We only play together as a couple....NO EXCEPTIONS!!!! I you ask either of us to play alone you WILL be blocked without exception. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***** We have met and spoken to many people in the lifestyle and have been surprised by a few things. First, we are surprised at how many people insist that they are interested in "friends first" but when getting together the first and primary focus is getting into bed, two drinks and "let's go". That is NOT us. So many also claim to not be "bedpost notchers" yet it seems their lives are consumed by the lifestyle and they seek to hook up at every opportunity with as many people as possible. We have actually known couples who race to be the ones to "get with" others before other couples they know as if in a race and they are keeping score. Come on people, that is just plain wrong, this is not a game or a race. Again, that is NOT us. We are also surpised by how many people claim to be respectful and "no pressure" yet from the first moment of meeting they are like an octopus, hands all over without asking permission from either of us, very uninvited and very disrespectful of the both of us. A lot of people have claimed to want everyone involved yet when their partner disappears their first and only intent is to slide away with our partner, again, very disrespectful to both of us. Our profile says we play together, no exceptions so no one should be trying to separate either of us from the other...ever. That means no trapping either of us in a separate room or trying to talk one away from the other, that is just common sense, simple respect and common courtesy. So much of this goes on and turns us off so much that we are considering leaving the lifestyle, as time goes on there seems to be more and more fakes, disingenuous people and just plain dishonest people that it is becoming a turn off rather than the fun, honest, friendly and respectful social time that it once was. We know this may seem harsh to some or even many but these are some of our real experiences. More than likely some things very similar have happened to you if you have been in the lifestyle for any length of time and if so we are sure you can understand our viewpoint. If not we are sorry and please feel free to move on to the next profile and have a nice day. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***** We are sexy, health conscious, clean D&D free and look for the same in those we play with. Very outgoing, sensous, love to laugh and play, touch and kiss. For us seduction starts in the mind and does not end with the climax! He is the ultimate gentleman, very caring and sensual and makes sure that the woman is always happy. She is very sassy and classy, loves the smooth feel of a woman and knows how to please a man. We have made many wonderful friends and look forward to adding to that circle.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite

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