-UPDATE UPDATE- **** -MARCH 24, 2012- I am going to be honest and to the point; - blunt. BE AWARE.. or simply BEWARE of ME. HONESTLY, what are we all looking for on this site? I can speak for myself with both clarity and sincerity. Here goes... I am here to add some (ideally) out of breath, intoxicating excitement to my existence; not to let anymore of this life pass by without putting my needs first. I've been overly independent for MUCH too long. So I've finally acknowledged and graciously accepted the truth: I require and crave sex, intimate relations, touching, kissing, spooning, more sex, and more kissing and I could go on & on... I want a confident man who knows what he wants and is able to take charge of me. Seriously... -to be able to tell me what he wants and what we are going to do, etc. etc. And be spontaneous and creative and just be able to "BE". I love to be able to just let myself go. I want someone who shares the same wants/interests/needs/goals, etc. I prefer honesty above All. Without it you're empty and basically nothing. It's true. So,if you are pretending/attempting to be that one which you are not, your pics are not from this decade let alone century, or you at all, STOP wasting my time as well as yours. How far do you think that will get you? Let me tell you a bit more about myself: :) I'm a single, white, 41 - yes,-FORTY-ONE -(yr. old youngster)-5'9 1/2", 142lb., PISCES package of deliciousness. Yes, I said that; "DELICIOUSNESS".=)) I'm an opened minded, kind, compassionate being who appreciates as well as practices random acts of kindness. The little things can be both the sweetest as well as most valuable of "things." There's sooo much more to me than what you see in my plethora of pics.:X -EXCEPT for 1, (that "1" probably being the best "1" ha ha!) ALL of my pics were taken AFTER August 2011 and continue forward up until and as current as : 02/07/12. Some sexy, some silly, some whatever you make of them. ;) I definitely have a dry sense of humor, I LOVE music, love good food, a good book, and so much more. It brings me genuine joy to take care of those who both appreciate me & deserve it... When I say, "take care", I'm referring to numerous things which I will save from sharing until that time comes. I can't tell you too much.. :) It's like this: You treat me good, and I'll treat you better. You want to be foolish and disrespectful, then it's your loss. I don't have time for drama, head games, or anything or anyone that is unable to stimulate all my senses; both mentally,and physically. I'm a bit eccentric, have proven to be a bit naive -(sometimes learning the hard way,-but HOPEFULLY learning from it..) - ;) and I firmly believe in karma as well as the "Golden Rule". I want to find someone who can actually take care of himself, someone consistent and stable, someone REAL. - Someone EXPERIENCED in the bedroom, who likes to REALLY take care of me, cater to my desires and is able to teach me a thing or two.. Do something NEW to me.. And I've got something for you as well... (if it is [I][/I]really you.:) -And I really am a good girl. But wait! I'm [I]through [/I]being the good girl. I can be her when necessary, but I'm overdue for a change. I'm open for some worthy excitement, new friendships, possibly a relationship, or whatever works, a MUTUAL feeling and RESPECT for one another, etc., etc. -ENOUGH! OH!!! I [B][/B]EXPECT[B][/B] great HYGIENE and cleanliness all the way around. That SHOULD go without saying, but I'm just reiterating the obvious. -YOU ARE WELCOME. :) p.s. Did I mention I require some discipline? It's true, I do. =))

My Ideal Person MY IDEAL kind of guy... Hmmmm... I'm a romantic at heart. I want romantic wrapped up with masculinity, dominance, someone who isn't afraid to let go..- and in some cases hold on tightly; - to me. ..an open minded soul who can say what he truly means & wants as well as mean & want what he says. I need PASSION. EYE CONTACT. SERIOUS KISSING. ...someone who WANTS to AS WELL AS knows how to pamper a girl like me. some ideas.. -brushing my hair, making breakfast in bed, full body massages... good stuff like that. I'll let you surprise me. (I'm soo wishing..) Ahh... that's all for now. (Too much to write.) Be yourself.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
White Stripes, Raconteurs, Hanni Khatib, , Led Zeppelin, HarryConnick,
Jr., Pink Floyd (2many2name)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex, Massage, .variety & creativity, Roleplaying is SOOO fucking
HOT!!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Just knowing the sex and our deep bond will continue to get
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Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
That is a silly question.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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