UPDATE: October.... Taking a break. You are welcome to contact me, but until further notice I can't promise how quickly i'll get back to you. Probably looking at no less than a couple months. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ i'd like to meet a stable, confident, married couple who are patient, clean, encouraging, respectful and discreet. Everyone's participation level must depend on what we ALL are OK about. NSA, no drama and no games, please. PLEASE DO NOT ASK FOR PICS RIGHT OUT OF THE GATE! IF YOU DO, WE'RE DONE. let's see if we are all on the same page with the same interests. FYI: even if your profile says standard members can contact you, there is a glitch. I can NOT see anyone's profile past the first two sentences and can only see one tiny pic if you post any. I cannot email or flirt either. so the only way to get me to respond to your interactions is for you to email me first. and then I still can only reply. nothing more. I hate aff. so please, if you email me, take a moment to copy/paste your profile into the email so I can learn about you and what you're looking for. [B]IF YOU DO NOT PROVIDE COMPLETE PROFILE INFO IN YOUR EMAIL, I WILL NOT REPLY. IF YOU ASK FOR PICS RIGHT OFF THE BAT, WE'RE DONE.[/B] prefer to avoid one-time only situations. she can be bi or just curious and looking to see what she's comfortable with. I'm very patient and easy going with no expectations or pressure. it's whatever is comfortable for everyone. i also am ok with seeing what we're comfortable with once we get into that situation. i'm discreet, d/d free, respectful of boundaries, and love to laugh. i'm also insistent about cleanliness, always using condoms and always being safe, safe, safe. if you're looking for a barbie or a model type, we won't be compatible. that's a huge turn-off for me. i'm no model, and i'm not looking for anyone who is. i'm a real woman with a real ass and hips, and i'm looking for a real couple. i like women to look like women, not like sticks. I do, however, prefer men in decent shape simply for the comfort of having sex, if it gets to that. while i believe looks play an important role in chemistry, chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes. i'm more interested in the per, the humor, the intellect, etc. if we have chemistry, great. if not, no big deal. i'm detailed in this introduction so that you can get your questions answered now, and so that you will feel free to ask anything. Note: please, no men doing the filtering and communicating 'for' their wives. if we can't all be involved in the important early communications, please go elsewhere. also, please, [B]NO SINGLE MEN[/B]. thanks, y'all. :-)

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