I am in a relationship and I need a little spice in my life. Does anyone have any suggestions? I am 5'3", about 115lbs. Fit and flat-chested. 38 years old. Not looking long term. Seems simplistic, but I've always wanted someone to lather me up and shave me—close shaves preferred. I don't want to be a dom and have a sub do this, but I'd like to play a more submissive role in most scenarios. I'm very voyeuristic and would also like to just watch in a range of different situations. Discretion is mandatory and since I live with my partner, my place is off limits. I'm into taking pictures, being filmed - something along those lines. I'm not much of an exhibitionist on a large-scale, but I can handle taking commands in front of one or two people. I love to hear people's suggestions and respond more readily to those who send suggestive photos. Webcam exchanges welcome. In fact, I'd like to suggest we meet via webcam--initially. Even if you don't have one, I would be happy to perform some simple requests. If you write to me, introduce yourself with what you would like to me to do for you on a webcam. I should add that while I have bi tendencies, I am a lesbian. I am not a lipstick, I don't wear high heels and lacy underwear. I'm a regular flat-chested woman who wears jeans at home and work. No frills, so if you're into big boobs and high heels, please find someone else because I'm definitely not your type.

My Ideal Person Short-term playmate. Gay, straight, bi, whatever. Non-traditional. Intelligent. Experimental. Discrete. Non-commital. Age really doesn't matter, but body type should be fairly fit. I'm getting a lot of hits...if you are interested, please send a photo (of any kind). It makes a difference. I have pictures on my network.

I'm also interested in the scenario where the man is fully clothed and I'm completely undressed.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I believe I've written this in my profile, but I like
to be dominated. I'm in a long-term lesbian relationship
and am happy with everything except the sex--which is well
above average, but lacking some excitement. I want someone
to be in charge. I would like to be shaved by someone. I would
like to watch a couple having sex. I would like to be the toy
for some guy and his buddy to take turns with or whatever
(no straight couples please). Also, as far as participation
goes, I'd like to watch someone masterbate. I'm
a voyeur. Who out there is an exhibitionist? A little fun
during a movie or over dinner in a dark corner of the restaurant.
Why don't you send me an idea and we'll discuss
it.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, somewhere semi-public; military barracks

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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