Now that I have your time lets start with a li' basic info Name: Peter Age:40 finally grown and sexy Weight: 250 lbs, husky build

My Ideal Person Absolute Musts:
- Must be psychologically and physically healthy (not necessarily 100% superwoman, but no obvious defects like depression, bipolar, borderline, or missing/nonfunctional limbs).
- Must not be willfully ignorant; must love to learn.
- Must be very honest, faithful, and not passive-aggressive (mind games are fun, but only with mutual consent)
Important Stuff:
- Willing to tolerate my hobbies, blunt honesty, and occasional ribbing. If I get to tolerate hers, all the better.
- Willing to laugh at offensive jokes, willing to be silly about deadly serious topics and be deadly serious about silly topics, but able to snap back to reality when necessary.

- Competetive, but a gracious winner and an amiable loser.
It Would be Nice if...
- Optimistic, likes to think about the future.
- Enjoys anime, but must not be obsessed with it (cosplay and conventions are creepy)
- Well-read is a major plus
- UNIX skills are a huge turn on
- Gamer. Ideally someone who could compete with me on even terms, but being a passably competent co-op partner or simply enjoying watching would be amazing too.
An absolutely perfect woman would embody all of the above qualities, as well as being the sort of person who is so unfailingly nice and fun and helpful that everyone who knows her looks up to her (I've met a few of these, but they were all 10-15 years older than me and married).

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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