Marriage moved from married, to friend zone, to separated. I've been on POF and Tinder, but, I would like to meet a lady with some adventure and curiosity in her. Is it OK to be looking for the love of my life one here? I think that if I find someone with similar likes and kinks, then we are half way there. I am looking for someone I can share dreams and fantasies with, and you are curious, not judgemental. I'd like to be friends (and maybe lovers) first and let it grow from there. And we would have to have some chemistry going on, right? I go for the whole package deal if you know what I mean. 'Love is not finding someone to live with............it's finding someone you don't want to live without.' 5'8" male, attractive, nice smile , (some) brown hair, what's left is turning gray, hazel / green eyes, clean, smell nice. It's not that I don't smile in my pics, I think it just looks fake, so I don't. I'm told I have caring eyes. Not really sure what that means.... I believe that in the end we will be judged on how we live our lives. Not by the bad, but by the good we do. I don't go around trying to save the worlds problems, but I like to help people with their little ones. If you are waiting for me to message you, AFF, sends me all sorts of profiles of people wanting to meet me etc, ( as does POF n Tinder) but when I check on the profile, they haven't been here for 3 months. So, I don't always trust "The System." If I put you in my hotlist, feel free to message me. Hi there to those who may remember me. I am back with a few goals in mind. I will update add my bucket list. No. I don't want to jump out of a plane, buy a Corvette etc.... But I would love to do a whole bunch of things I've been missing out on. You name it, I may want to try it. . I'm honest, caring, non-judgmental and I like to keep things simple but also like a lot adventure in bed instead of the "you lay down and I'll stick it in you" kinda sex. I love eating pussy and making my lady cum.....until she can't cum any more. I want to change things more to the serious side. I still want to have fun, but I'm hoping to meet someone who can be more then just a friend. I still want to play out our fantasies or just have some plain old good times. I am a caring respectful guy. I don't judge, I may grade, but not judge. My greatest pleasure is a woman's orgasm. Nothing turns me on more. Let's meet for a coffee and see where we can take this. "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has its limits" : Albert Einstein. A Wise Person (Dr. Anony) once said that the 4 facts of Life are: 1. We all love to spend money buying new clothes but, we seldom realize that the best moments in life are enjoyed 'without clothes'. 2. Having a cold drink on a hot day with a few friends is nice, but having a hot friend on a cold night after a few drinks is...... PRICELESS. 3. Breaking News: Condoms don't guarantee safe sex anymore. A friend of mine was wearing one when he was shot dead by the woman's husband. 4. Arguing over a girl's bust size is like choosing between Coors, Molson, Heineken, Labatt, Carlsberg, Corona, or Budweiser. Men often state their preferences, but will actually 'grab whatever is available'.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for open-minded women with adventurous and indulgent spirit and body. Maybe married and alone, preferably independent and alone as I am ultimately looking for my second wife. I am looking for a women who wants to have a man attend to her needs, but isn't dependent on him. I am not expecting an instant relationship and will respect your space because I am expecting the same from you. Hopefully you'll be spontaneous.

I'm a lover not a fighter...passionate, easy-going with a zest for life. I am open minded, curious and willing to try anything once. I love a woman who is comfortable with herself. ( you wouldn't have a problem going naked on the beach if no one else was around)

I'm sure we'll know if we have the chemistry for a discrete occasional get-together. Thanks for sharing whatever it is that comes up.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have lots of fantasies. I have been lucky enough to live
some. I have others, but I am still waiting for the right
person to share then with. <br><br> I like the idea of a masquerade party.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Who needs a celebrity with so many great looking ladies
in the lower mainland?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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