Limited trial member here, contact me on the IM chat here if I'm online. 100% single pandemic survivor. I'm intelligent, sweet and discreet and know how to treat a lady. I'm into quality not quantity on here. I'm ex US Navy and a former club and radio dj. Now I am a much less exciting studio engineer, but MUSIC has always been my passion. I make fun remixes under the name DJ Topcat which you can find on the net. I'm a pretty good drummer too. On the side I help solve crimes as a real amateur web sleuth. Anything else we can save for the after good sex pillow talk. haha

My Ideal Person Honestly I am generally attracted to just average cute women, not pancake makeup, anorexic Vogue cover model types. I prefer petite to slim women with pretty eyes and a great smile. Eyes are the windows to the soul so I guess you could say I am definitely an "eyes" guy.

Turn-ons - intelligence (Sapiophile here), classy in public but a freak in the bedroom, a sense of humor, loves animals (especially cats and dogs) ,kindness, and above all else puts their family and friends first. I get EXTRA turned on by women who love to have foreplay, not just the "wham bam thank you ma'am" 5 minute special. I could just pay a hooker for that. I want down and dirty marathon sex where the windows start fogging up! Bottles of Gatorade at the ready between rounds.

Turn offs - judgmental types, negativity, vapid empty stare selfie takers, narcissists, gold diggers, flakes, substance abuse addicts.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Led Zeppelin, Al Green, Jimi Hendrix

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Diane Lane. I've had a crush on her since i was a teen.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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