UPDATE: I have to say this site is extremely discouraging to a newbie trying to figure out how deep she really wants to get into all of this. There is so much here that is just junk. I've been on here for weeks and not sure I have communicated with a single person that is real and interested in pursuing anything. Except of course the constant stream of penis profile pics that seem to never end. Is it really too much to ask to connect with a real lady that would like to talk and maybe meet with us. SINGLE GUYS - PLEASE STOP MESSAGING ME. I've been with men before and have been lucky enough to find the one that is perfect for me. I'm not interested in an encounter with another man. I've reached the point in my life where I want to explore my interest in another woman. That is all I am here for. I like to have a good time but it takes me a bit to get warmed up. My husband is outgoing and usually has everyone laughing and having a good time. I stick close to him until I am comfortable. I am unsure in new situations and will often follow somebody else's lead but after I get comfortable I like to have a good time. A drink or 2 certainly helps me relax. My husband doesn’t drink so I’ve always got my DD close by. I try to eat well and work out daily. I don’t always, but I try. It’s always the last 2 or 3 pounds that frustrate me. I’m told I look younger than I am. My husband doesn’t do focused workouts but is in good shape as well. He’s always active and doing something and that keeps him in good shape. He’s a big, naturally muscular guy with broad shoulders that make for great hugs!

My Ideal Person Is there such a thing? We are doing this to expand our current circle of friends and add more fun and excitement to our sex life. If we came in looking for the same "type" we already look for where's the fun that....

Beyond that...We have had several friends tell us recently that they have gotten into the lifestyle and are really enjoying it. I'm not sure how far we will really go but the idea is intriguing. My husband and I have been talking about it for while. I created a profile while he was out of town and surprised him with the idea when he got home. However far we end up going with this I really hope to find friends to hang out with and have a good time, play if the connection is there. I really enjoy hanging out with friends, going to dinner, weekend trips, etc. We are both very laid back and like to relax, unwind and have a good time. I am looking for the right woman to connect with to start exploring the possibilities. I’m unsure and uncomfortable in new situations, this is a new situation for sure. I never imagined I/we would be thinking about going down this path.

If you are experienced and want to show me how all this goes, if we connect I would be all for it. If you are new to this as well and want to stumble through it with me, that's even better. I'm not ready to talk about all of this with the friends we have living the life but I would like another woman outside our current friend group to chat with and maybe open up to. All of this talk has created an interest in me and another woman playing with my husband a bit, I imagine soft as it is labeled here then see where it goes from there. I’m definitely not ready for another man to be involved. Like all of us I have had some rough times that have made me a bit guarded around men. I don’t ever see us getting involved in some of the large parties I’ve been hearing about but hoping to stay open minded about private get togethers.

So far most everyone that has contacted me/us has been very nice. Thank you! That has been quite refreshing and has helped me relax a bit.

Now that the hectic times of the Christmas season is behind us I would like to take the next steps soon.