Updated: 9/6/23: First things First: NO MEN!! Please don't even try. If you have a cock, I am not into it. That goes for couples that want a MMF. I am just uncomfortable and again, just not into men. So, please do not reach out, send me emails, or IM's if you are a man, I wont read them and you will be blocked. OK...now that is out of the way, let's do this. I am not too new to the scene; however, I do know what I want. I been exploring, getting to know others; however, haven't made any good friends. I am willing to learn and need some excitement in my life. I have standards; therefore, I will be a little picky. If you dont fall in my standards dont be upset just move along. I am now a resident of Blue Ridge hope to meet some really great people. I can assure you that this will not be a never ending string of emails and should there be a connection and if we decide to meet, I will NOT GHOST you. I mean AND do what I say.

My Ideal Person Updated: 9/6/23:

Be Classy. A woman who is classy, has style, and takes care of herself is a real turn on for me. I take the time each and every day to take a shower, do my hair, smell good, shave etc. and work my ass off, I expect you to do many of the same things.

Be Trashy. LOL...This relates to the princess by day and slut by night. Let your creative juices flow and let's have some fun with this.

Be visual and sexy: I hope to find a woman who likes to dress sexy for her man and I am not talking evening gown attire. I like what's on underneath. and that can be something to discussed down the road.

-Be communicative. I really like to talk and take the time to get to know a person. Please be able to spell, write, read, carry on a descent conversation. I am an educated man and expect you to be able to keep up with me. I dont know everything so dont worry, I am open-minded; I willing to learn and except new ideas. Tell me something interesting about yourself and I will do the same.

Be respectful. This is a big one for me. Im looking for discreet fun. I understand that you may have the freedom to share all of your business, but I am a very private person. I can share a part of me with you, not the whole world.
Be a FWB. Now it gets harder and this will eliminate a lot of people. Be discreet and patient. Yes, I am married and on this site for my own personal reasons. I want to take the time to make sure we are on the same page, have proper boundaries, and truly have a friendship. If you can do that, then we can move onto more of the fun stuff.

Be Monogamous. I am NOT looking to share myself with the world and I am clean and want to keep that way. If you have a spouse, that's fine by me and of course you should take care of her/him. m not willing to have multiple partners though.

Looks and Personality. I am attracted to women who are shorter than me (I'm 5'7") and of course busty. The bigger the better and if you have long thick nipples, that's a bonus, but not a requirement. If you are lactating or want an ANR, that's even a bigger bonus! I have dated many types of women that are are extremely fit and some that are fluffy. Im just not into huge. FYI: There has to be an attraction and chemistry. Dont take this the wrong way, but if there is nothing there we need to BE RESPECTFUL and move on.

Im outgoing, I have a big personality, I love attention, and having a good time. I want to be around someone who knows how to enjoy themself. I want to be in good company and to repeat myself...discretion is a must.

I know thats a lot, and if you think we could have chemistry then send me an email. Be patient. I will respond when I can. Thank you for reading and getting this far.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
ask me

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Massage, ANR is a huge turn on

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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