I have been on and off AFF for many years. Originally I was cintuit until AFF found a way to corrupt my account and could not fix it. Hence the newer profile name. I am not sure when AFF got taken over by posers, flakes, pic collectors, scammers, pro's and bots. It is very disappointing. I have met some wonderful people here over the years, however lately AFF appears to have lost it's ability to meet REAL people. Can you prove to me that REAL people still exist here at AFF? If your end game is to get me to email or text you outside of AFF to have you ask me to join another website or pay a fee to be verified, or to send you money, don't bother or waste my time. To those of you that are contacting me from outside of the state of California, I do travel throughout the US and have meet some GREAT people. However I am not interested in moving you to California. I am sorry that I do not have face pictures of me on my profile. Many years ago I ran across and discovered some of my co workers and a couple of my neighbors on AFF. If you ask me for a face pic, I will send mine to you. A little about me - Don't let my numeric age fool you. I have been told by many that a look more like I am in my early 50's. I have a great outlook on life and you should too. Sexually, young at heart. I am a divorced dad with two adult that live with me. Due to my work schedule, travel for work, volunteering and other personal commitments, etc, I don't have the necessary time to put into a committed relationship, however I do enjoy making new friends and seeing where that might lead. This also means that I am all for having a main partner. I enjoy being friends first and partners second. This seems to make that whole adventure much more enjoyable. ;o) WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this statement.

My Ideal Person WOMEN:
I would like to meet someone that would like to go out on a date when our schedules mesh. I do mean a date, where we go do something that we both have an interest in. You will be my girlfriend for the day, and I will treat you like your last boyfriend/husband should have. I will open doors for you, I will pull out your chair, we will walk holding hands, we will kiss and be openly affectionate in public. Then some dinner and a bottle of wine (maybe two), engage in some intelligent conversation, then enjoy the "PLEASURE" of one another's company. Except we skip all the baggage that goes along with a dating relationship (why hasn't she called me, what is she doing, who is she with, blah, blah, blah). OR, if your not into that, and just want to FUCK, well I can do that too.

COUPLES:
I have been in the lifestyle for many years. I have a wide variety of experiences and I have enjoyed them all. I understand what it is like to invite someone else into your bedroom. I am not pushy. I am respectful, and recognize that I am a guest. All boundaries and rules will be respected. I can be the perfect gentleman or the nastiest fuck toy you have ever had. I am an educated and prefer to be social outside the bedroom (bathroom, car, bar, or restaurant) or we can just be fuck buddies, whatever you are comfortable with.

BOTH:
I am comfortable in a suit and tie as much as I am in my favorite pair of shorts or jeans. I have many interests and can fit into most any environment. A great bottle of Cab, Petron, or a great micro brew, hard cider or whatever suits the situation.

Everyone: I have listed many things that I have experienced. Please do not read into that these are things I live my life by. Everyone is different. What works for one may not work for someone else. I am about making sure we all have a good time doing what we all enjoy doing.

I enjoy being friends first and partners second. This seems to make that whole adventure much more enjoyable.

We could share some pleasurable activities, every now and then.

If you need "Gas Money" to get to me, do not waste my time. I have NO interest in or need of LIARS, SCAMMERS, FAKES, or MEN posing as girls.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
eagles, boston, santana

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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