We have been together for 17 years and married for 13. Very comfortable in our relationship and with each other. We have been in the lifestyle for over a decade and have just recently talked about exploring polamory as well as swinging. J is on the shyer side. He is very respectful and lets things unfold how they will. He is very go with the flow and no pressure. Excellent at reading a womans body and can tell if she is uncomfortable or how to change what he is doing for maximum pleasure for them both. He is much more of a giver and always makes sure the woman gets off, usually multiple times, before he even thinks of himself. He loves giving oral to a woman and finds the perfect way not too hard and not too easy. He has a very nice 8.5inch uncircumcised package that he knows just how to use, he doesnt depend just on the size to do the job.K is also shy at first but quickly warms up and takes the lead in a conversation or play. K is a bookworm who moonlights as a nerd and you never know where she will take a conversation. She is pansexualdemisexual so enjoys playing with women just as much as men. She loves giving oral to both and it shows in her skills. K is very much a giver to the point she forgets about herself sometimes. She has amazing curves and a very nice 46DD chest.Both of us are disease and drugfree. We keep ourselves trimmed and clean and will put some effort into ourselves when we meet. We are both plussize and nowhere near Ken and Barbie but by no means are we slobs. K is fixed

My Ideal Person First and forefront be honest. We have met a couple of people who have misrepresented themselves and we were in for a shock when we first met. Love yourself and your body. Please have some basic hygiene and make sure your clean before meeting. Have also had some problems with this. We like to chat and are not into only messaging to arrange a time and place. Prefer friends to talk to before and after and in between meets. Would love to go out together and with the right people would love to hang out together as families. We have two elementaryage boys who love to go to the zoo and park. As mentioned before K can lead the conversation and play and it can be a little intimidating to some women who are unsure. A little jealousy is normal and expected but please no drama. No cheating. We will not do anything behind each others back and we will always come first to each other. We are open to all sorts of experiences including swaps, gangbangs, threesomes and one on one meets.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
snow patrol

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
prefer everyday people

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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