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softandsweet44 78 / F
"Older BBW seeking young and nicely hung BOY TOY"
Keene, New Hampshire, United States
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softandsweet44 78/F
Keene, New Hampshire
What is wrong with this site that advertises women as hookers? Why has it gone downhill?
This PROFILE is registered to Adult FriendFinder ONLY. If you are seeing this profile, are reading my blog or viewing my photos on any site other than Adult FriendFinder, it has been placed there without my knowledge nor any consent from me. I AM NOT A , contrary to what AFF promotes in their false advertising. If you came here for that, too bad. Just move your ass on. deeppink]I have to update this as many are [B]NOT [/B]understanding what I am looking for. So I will be clearer. I do NOT want any married men, men over 99 or men involved. If you have any facial hair, PLEASE MAKE SURE IT IS NEAT!!!! NO smokers!!!! That should be clear. UPDATE 3/10 1. If you don't have a face picture to send, then dont bother to contact me. I am standard and can only see the crappy small profile pic. No face pic attached, means NO response!! 2. If you decide to send me some insulting emails, be prepared. Not only will I report you to AFF, I will let all my friends in blogland know what a loser you are. Trust me your name will smell worse than gym sneakers if you decide to act like an idiot. 3. If You arent close enough to meet, dont bother ask. I mean, why say you love to fly and have no problem traveling 2000 miles. This will get you deleted fast! 4. Im not entertaining YOU. If you want a quick bump and grind or a blow..just go. I expect the full deal and this means showing ME attention. Dont think you are going to arrive and then lay back...FUHGET IT LOSER!!!! 5. Having fun doesnt always mean sex. Yea, thats what I said. Asking me out and spending time with me or reading my blog, will tell me a lot about who you really are. 6. Meeting will not guarantee sex. Even if the face picture is nice, if the chemistry isn't there, NO pity fucks!!!! 7. Finally, I shouldn't have to mention this, BUT, unfortunately it happens. DO NOT SEND ME PICTURES SHOWING YOU WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. This includes her holding your dick, kissing, on your bed or any part of her showing. Why would that make me to want YOU? If I need to see that kind of picture, I would ask. Sorry, this is just a BIG offense to me. HOWEVER I HAVE NOTICED MANY MORE HAVE INCLUDED THE REQUESTED FACE PICTURES IN THEIR EMAILS,SO THIS SHOWS YOU ARE READING MY REQUESTS. THANK YOU FOR THAT. [COLOR purple]I am searching for a younger, single man for fun and pleasure. In addition,I am tall, and a bbw woman. This means I am [B]BIG[/B] all over. I am NOT tiny, but I have a very soft,sensual body. If you do not like large..then LEAVE ME ALONE!!!![/COLOR] [COLOR blue]I live alone, work as a counselor, and enjoy music, reading, writing, traveling, watching RED SOX and Pats games, dining out and time with good friends. I love to laugh and have fun, so I hope you have a sense of humor! Please be within normal driving distance as well. If you have to drive, please DO NOT SPEND THE FIRST 20 MINUTES WHINING ABOUT HOW FAR IT IS FROM THE COAST GUYS

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone in late 30's to 40's who is eager to spend time together. You need to have a sense of humor, some spontaneity, compassion and honesty. I have a high sex drive, so I want you to have one too! I hope you enjoy sharing ideas from each others lives, and can treat your lady as if she is the most important person in your life when having sex. I am a bbw. I am LARGE and expect this to NOT be an issue. So accept me as a goddess or
just pass me by, but don't start talking to me, or see me, and then act shocked when we meet, or after you got AWESOME ORAL SEX! I AM NOT INTERESTED IN GIVING JUST A BLOW JOB....I WANT ATTENTION TOO!!!!
I am all that you see and all that you cannot...I seek the man that knows how to look within
I love a man that isn't afraid to show sensitivity and romance. It is a dying art amongst males. This poem is a favorite of mine, written by a Chilean poet who embraced women and their bodies.


Body of a woman, white hills, white thighs,
you look like a world,lying in surrender.
My rough peasant's body digs in you
and makes the son leap from the depth of the earth.

I was alone like a tunnel. The birds fled from me,
and night swamped me with its crushing invasion.
To survive myself I forged you like a weapon,
like an arrow in my bow, a stone in my sling.

But the hour of vengeance falls, and I love you.
Body of skin, of moss, of eager and firm milk.
Oh the goblets of the breast! Oh the eyes of absence!
Oh the roses of the pubis! Oh your voice, slow and sad!

Body of my woman, I will persist in your grace.
My thirst, my boundless desire, my shifting road!
Darkriver-beds where the eternal thirst flows
and weariness follows, and the infinite ache.

Pablo Neruda

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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too hard to narrow down...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am in an elevator with a very nice looking, youngish man,
well dressed. We both push button for 69 floor. No words
are ever spoken, but our eyes connect and we both know what
we want. I drop to my knees; he drops his pants. He is well
hung, totally shaved and beautifully erect. I begin by
cupping his soft ball sac, rubbing, as my mouth hungrily
slides up and down his hard shaft. I continue to rub and fondle,
my mouth making soft sucking and murmering sounds. He stands
with his head back, eyes closed and softly moaning "oohh
God yes"...he rubs my hair and pushes me into his body.
My mouth touches his hard belly, and i nibble at it teasingly.
His shaft becomes harder and engorged within my wet mouth.
I can taste all his precum, and I eagerly suck and swallow
his man juice. At one point he reaches over and hits STOP
button to give us more works..I suck deeper
and harder...suddenly he begins to moan harder....his
body shakes and oh yes I feel the pumping release as his balls
surrender their musky hot cum to my devouring mouth!! Over
and over he pumps, and then he shudders and stops. I swallow
the last of his load, and look up into his eyes. He helps me
stand, pulls up his pants and hits the release STOP button.
The elevator arrives at floor 69 and the door opens. He exits,
but not before he gives me a kiss and a look that says "thank
you" he leaves the confines of our sex filled
cubicle, he looks over his shoulder, hands me a room key
and winks. It was magical. <br><br>
In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest, where no one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art. ~ Rumi

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage, sometimes i like golden and candle wax., Bondage is fun with special people

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Tom Brady, and some of the olympic skiiers, make me HOT!
I love their hard, young bodies, and those lycra suits!!!
mmmmmmm....Tom is just all around sexy, smile, eyes, and
bod! I would let him move in with me and the first week he was
here, he wouldn't leave my bed!! Also Papelbon can
throw his balls to me anytime!!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 78 / female
  • Keene, New Hampshire, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: December 3, 1944
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: BBW
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: retired
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 46+ / 105+ DD (E, if no DD)
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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