I have occasional desires that seem somewhat baffling, as in witnessing a cock grow hard and get handled, for example. I'm physically, mentally and financially comfortable aka normal (whatever that means :)). The things that we're not supposed to talk about or think about are the very same things that seem to intrigue me. Perhaps it's just a passing phase of my life... or perhaps it's much more than that...? :)

My Ideal Person Confidence and stability are huge in my book.
Desperation and uncertainty are a turn-off.
Married and discrete