First off, I'm in great shape. I've been married since 1969. My wife found her dream job in another state and we see each other only 2-3 weekends per month. I also travel 1-2 weeks per month for work. My wife had a hysterectomy several years ago and says penetration is painful. We haven't made love in at least 4 years. She has a girl friend where she lives/works. I find that okay, but, since I really, really love to perform cunnilingus, I don't know why we can't do at least that. We raised a bunch, adopted more, fostered a whole bunch. I am a "retired" healthcare professional. I inspect healthcare facilities, teach, and consult to get grants for free clinics, etc. I played Division 1 football and wrestled in college. Love to camp, fish, read, play bridge (does anyone do that anymore?) I'm also a pretty fair cook - mastering Cuban right now. I'm very alone most of the time. I miss adult conversation, cuddling, kissing, and of course, intimacy. I am not looking to change my status. After years of begging my wife for sex, she's told me to get what I need but be discreet. I guess that about says it all. Ask if you need more information.

My Ideal Person Honestly, I'm looking only for discreet, no strings sex. If we meet each others' needs, it may happen more than once; it may be a one time thing. I'd like to see you and correspond before I dive in. I don't want the details of your life, just how I can please you, and would be willing to return the favor. Need pix? Just ask!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Just DOING it seems like a fantasy - if I wake up with a hard-on, it's
been because I hadn't had sex for so long, I just dreamed
about the act. I love to give my partner so much pleasure
that I can count the orgasms. I wouldn't mind having
a woman give me more than one in a session either.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, I might try anything with a girl.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I guess I have a thing for Sigourney Weaver, but I guess I
figure it's so unlikely I'll meet a celebrity
that I don't think about it. My idea of hell is being
forced to do it with Hillary.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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